Not really sure if anyone has posted anything similar to this cause I'm just new to B&B. I wonder if any of you can help me. My partner and I have been TTC for a few months now. We're trying to look at it like 'it'll happen when it happens' and trying not to stress about it too much but it's starting to bother me now... My best friend is preggers with her 2nd baby, a little boy who is due in 4 weeks and 4 days. I'm excited for her, but feeling jealous cause she is having her 2nd and I haven't even got my 1st!!

I'm also finding it hard to work out when I'm due my AF because my periods haven't been totally regular since I came off the pill. I do know that I am always a few days after my Mum, so sneaky me checked the bin when I used her toilet... I know, pyscho right! But there were always liner wrappers in there, so I'm assuming she was either preparing for her period or had started it (they were the light liners). I normally follow her a few days later, but there's been nothing.

I have my last 2 periods written down. I had the months before that written down in my diary, but I got a new one for the end of '09 and '10 and stupidly threw the other one out... so only the last 2. My period in Sep was 11th-15th and then this month 1st-5th. That means there were 15 days between periods. It is now 21 days after this months period... Either my cycle is REALLY messed up or I'm missing something...

I was out with a friend the other day and when I was moaning about being tired because I'd had to keep getting up for a wee all night, she said I should take a test.... and when I did take one it was a BFN!! SOOOO confused!!

I have what could be pregnancy symptoms... but I suppose they could also just be AF coming... I'm absolutely knackered. I feel like I haven't had a good nights sleep in ages. I keep waking up needing the loo... I find I need the toilet a lot during the day. I've got a banging headache right now, but I've also got a stuffy nose and cold coming on, so it could maybe be that... I've also had cramping for the past week or so... keep expecting AF and feeling wet in my knickers a few times, but it's creamy white CM... sorry if that's tmi!! on the 10th of this month i went out for my cousin's birthday and had realllly bad cramp. I had to leave and go home it was that bad. It felt like really bad period pains but I knew I'd just had a period... Also have bumps on my nipples and veins running through them. little bit sore at times.

Just realised this is a supperr long post so i'll stop there. any help would be appreciated cause I don't understand if I'm just having wierd cycles or what, cause I got a BFN!! I want a BFP!!

I haven't got a clue what's going on with you I'm afraid but didn't wanna read & run as I've got exactly the same symptoms as you but I'm not due AF for another week. Good luck in your quest for a BFP.

I don't know what to say to help hun but didnt want to read and run. If your so late, maybe go see Dr or wait a few more days and take another test?
Sorry im not much help.
Nothing is ever simple is it!

Thanks girls... I dunno what to do. I've read that some people have really long cycles so I don't really know what my body is doing. I might wait until the end of this week, and then go to my doctor, or the family planning clinic and see what they say. I'm really scared AF is going to arrive!!

Good luck to you two aswell, hope you both get the results you want!!

hi dont want to get u all excited but they sound the same as wot i had b4 i found out i was pregnant i just fort i was cumin down wiv the flu i wud wait till at least the end ov the month an test again u may av tested a bit early gd luck

Thanks key123. That's good news!!! I'm going to try not to get my hopes up though cause every time I get excited AF always comes. It's only 5 days until the end of the month... Hopefully I still won't have had a period by then and I can test again. Might buy a more expensive test cause the one I tested with was just a cheapie.

Congrats on your pregnancy too!!

Hi - it is defo sounding positive, and it could be your cycle just got messed up last month and the test was too early to tell. Providing the dreaded AF doesn't arrive before I would test next week after 1st Nov - that gives you 30 days from getting your AF in Oct.

I am due to test next week too - so eyes down that we get the BFP's we want soon, keep me posted hun
xxx

Ooooh, that gives me some hope KittyKatBabe!! I can't help but feel like AF is going to get me... I think I'm just naturally a pessimist.... I will wait until the 1st and then test then. Hopefully AF will stay away for us both! Good luck to you too! Let me know how it goes!