Am I too obsessed?

wannabebump · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:41 AM

I have been TTC since May and since then all I think about is babies. What clothes he/she would wear, what pram I should get.
Recently, two of my friends have both fallen pregnant by accident, and I feel as though I want it so much, and they didn't even want a baby.
Is it normal to feel like this? Or am I too obsessed?

venusrockstar · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:44 AM

I think it's normal to feel that way, especially when you are wanting one of your own. I remember how depressed I was when I found out that 2 of my cousins were pregnant last year..I was happy for them, but very depressed at the same time. I see tons of people in malls with their little babies and wish it was me..hubby and I have only been trying for 2-3 months total...but I just want it to happen so badly.

Sometimes I will go look in the children's section just to look at the clothes and products etc.

RebaRezzelba · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:47 AM

Hi - no its perfectly normal to be feeling like this - more so at the beginning of your TTC journey - Ive been trying for 22 months and I still think about the clothes and the prams etc - and all my friends have fallen pregnant (and given birth) since I started TTC. It doesnt get any easier but you cant let it get to you - the more you relax and try to forget about it the better (easier said than done I know). I hope your TTC journey is a short one - good luck to you.

wannabebump · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:48 AM

My problem is that I was on the Depo injection for two years. And now have read horror stories about it.

Oh, I've bought baby clothes and a few other things. I feel like I can spread the cost.

I just feel so desperate and pray every night.

Have you tried anything like preseed or others?

RebaRezzelba · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:53 AM

Hi - Im currently taking EPO (evening Primrose Oil) to help with CM. I also started B100 Complex to increase my LP (Luteal Phase) and I used preseed this month and soft cups (without success). Ive read alot about people getting their BFP using preseed and conceive plus so might be worth a go for you.

wannabebump · Oct 26th, 2009, 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by RebaRezzelba

Hi - Im currently taking EPO (evening Primrose Oil) to help with CM. I also started B100 Complex to increase my LP (Luteal Phase) and I used preseed this month and soft cups (without success). Ive read alot about people getting their BFP using preseed and conceive plus so might be worth a go for you.

I'm thinking of all sorts. I have heard of a Peruvian Fertility Aid, called Maca Root. I am lookin at everything that could possibly help. What exactly is B100 Complex and Soft Cups?

africaqueen · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:48 AM

how u feel is completely normal ;-)

This is my 4th cycle ttc with my fiance but i did ttc for 3yrs with my ex to no avail so i knw wot it feels like to watch the world get pg whilst we endlessly wait and wait...

Pray we all get those bfps asap!! x

T'elle · Oct 26th, 2009, 11:54 AM

this is normal for most people who are ttc hun , im the same this will be my 38th cycle and its driving me mad seeing everyone else around me fall pregnant x

Oct 26th, 2009, 10:41 AM	#1
wannabebump Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Somerset, UK Posts: 10	Am I too obsessed? I have been TTC since May and since then all I think about is babies. What clothes he/she would wear, what pram I should get. Recently, two of my friends have both fallen pregnant by accident, and I feel as though I want it so much, and they didn't even want a baby. Is it normal to feel like this? Or am I too obsessed?

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Oct 26th, 2009, 10:44 AM	#2
venusrockstar Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: CANADA Posts: 4,171	I think it's normal to feel that way, especially when you are wanting one of your own. I remember how depressed I was when I found out that 2 of my cousins were pregnant last year..I was happy for them, but very depressed at the same time. I see tons of people in malls with their little babies and wish it was me..hubby and I have only been trying for 2-3 months total...but I just want it to happen so badly. Sometimes I will go look in the children's section just to look at the clothes and products etc.

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Oct 26th, 2009, 10:47 AM	#3
RebaRezzelba Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 1,918	Hi - no its perfectly normal to be feeling like this - more so at the beginning of your TTC journey - Ive been trying for 22 months and I still think about the clothes and the prams etc - and all my friends have fallen pregnant (and given birth) since I started TTC. It doesnt get any easier but you cant let it get to you - the more you relax and try to forget about it the better (easier said than done I know). I hope your TTC journey is a short one - good luck to you.

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Oct 26th, 2009, 10:48 AM	#4
wannabebump Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Somerset, UK Posts: 10	My problem is that I was on the Depo injection for two years. And now have read horror stories about it. Oh, I've bought baby clothes and a few other things. I feel like I can spread the cost. I just feel so desperate and pray every night. Have you tried anything like preseed or others?

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Oct 26th, 2009, 10:53 AM	#5
RebaRezzelba Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 1,918	Hi - Im currently taking EPO (evening Primrose Oil) to help with CM. I also started B100 Complex to increase my LP (Luteal Phase) and I used preseed this month and soft cups (without success). Ive read alot about people getting their BFP using preseed and conceive plus so might be worth a go for you.

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Oct 26th, 2009, 11:48 AM	#7
africaqueen Other BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Liverpool England Posts: 4,145	how u feel is completely normal ;-) This is my 4th cycle ttc with my fiance but i did ttc for 3yrs with my ex to no avail so i knw wot it feels like to watch the world get pg whilst we endlessly wait and wait... Pray we all get those bfps asap!! x

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Oct 26th, 2009, 11:54 AM	#8
T'elle Other BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: South Wales Posts: 2,962	this is normal for most people who are ttc hun , im the same this will be my 38th cycle and its driving me mad seeing everyone else around me fall pregnant x

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