Trying To Conceive

Sinead · Feb 19th, 2008, 18:16 PM

Good luckwith your journey

diva4180 · Feb 19th, 2008, 18:31 PM

welcome hun, lots of luck and

to you!

Rumpskin · Feb 19th, 2008, 18:38 PM

Welcome bonfloss and good luck xx

MissMonty · Feb 19th, 2008, 19:30 PM

Hi bonfloss - I know how you feel

AF showed up for me today we've been TTC for 6 months now, I always get very upset, frustrated and dissapointed on the day AF arrives but from CD2 I try and focus again and think of new ways in which we can make TTC eaiser and more fun. This month I went out and brought some new 'bedroom' underwear which was a real hit with my DH

and we tried preseed for the first time too. I find this forum really supportive which really helps too. Wishing you lots of luck and

HAYS · Feb 19th, 2008, 19:58 PM

welcome to B&B hun, xxx

Franjipan · Feb 19th, 2008, 20:49 PM

welcome and good luck with FTC.I'm fairly new here and everyones been really lovely.if you need help or support you just ask and seconds later everyone else replies,where else do you get help like that?!its fab,hope u enjoy xxx

The Catster · Feb 19th, 2008, 21:37 PM

Try putting your legs up in the air after BDing- I swear it works!!!!
I am on TTC month 3- but the first 2 months I wasn't really trying to be honest- so when I sat down and analysed things I realised- I caught with my DD by lifting my legs up after BDing (completely by accident) as we were on the kitchen floor (oooh matron) and I was just resting my legs on the cupboard handles.
I had mc last year and then too I remember at conception putting my legs against a wall around O time straight after BDing.
Try it you have nothing to lose- and its hilarious to c the look on your OH's face when u do it!!!!!lol
Lots of this

for you!!!!

Nic · Feb 19th, 2008, 21:46 PM

Welcome. Most of us here know and understand the frustration you are experiencing. We can't change it, but it helps to have someone to share it all with. Have some

and hope you get a

soon.
Nic x

jonnanne3 · Feb 20th, 2008, 02:33 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bonfloss

I have been lurking on this site for a while and its great to see so many of you getting your BFPs. Myself and OH have been trying now for 7 months for our first. I am 31 and he is 35. I came off BCP last March and cycles settled down in August. I am now on 28/29 day cycles. I have used ovulation kits which have given me positives at CD 15/16. I also went to docs who took my bloods which came back fine. The whole thing is starting to put pressure on us as each month I am increasingly upset when AF shows up. Just wanted to share with people who understand as sick of hearing 'try too relax'!!!!

Me and my DH have been TTC for 9 months after a tubal reversal and I am 35 and he is 30. Every month was the same thing. I had just gone to the doctor on 2-05 for my annual and she was talking about fertility specialists and doing an HSG test to see if my tubes were open. I went home that day and was like "Ok, what do I have to do to fix this?" I went out and got a whole slew of things for this new fertility recipe and got the information on "Sperm meets the egg" plan and I was going to rock it out next cycle! But then Valentines day came and went with no sign of af coming. I tested the next morning and there was our

So I guess my advice to you would be to try and think of anything else other than TTC. Believe me I know what you are going through and it is soooo hard! I never realized how hard it was until I was TTC. My other 3 children were nice surprises but I didn't plan them.
So really just try and sit back and enjoy the ride!

Good luck and God bless! Sending you bunches of

bonfloss · Feb 20th, 2008, 08:16 AM

What a great site this is and a lovely bunch of people. Thanks for all your nice replies. xx

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