My sister has x2 DD and was adamant she wasn't going to have anymore, ever, and has been saying that for years.

I am now in month 7 of ttc and she told me the other week that she is pregnant and it happened on the first try! I am really happy for her and her DH, but its just so unfair, we both came from the same place and she is able to pop them like corn and I can't for love nor money

Everyone seems to be getting pregnant at the moment and my neighbour arrived home yesterday with her newborn baby, so happy for everyone else, but can't help but feel jealous and left behind.

I am sure we all feel the same on here, I don't know how much longer I can have this smile plastered on my face for everyone elses news!!!

Aww sweetie, don't worry you're time will come when its right. Believe me. I too have been in this situation. Last year 6 of my friends were pregnant at the same time. Three of them not married, 1 of them isn't even with the father, and there I was trying and trying with the man I love, my husband and nothing. still nothing actually. I know its hard. I too felt jealous and very left out. In the beginning I refused to speak to them about their pregnancies, but in the end I had to see that there is a reason for everything. I hope you get your BFP soon. I see you are on cd 21! I'm just a day behind you =D

I wish I had even one child. You are very lucky. x

I know, everyone must feel the same when they are ttc and find out someone else is pregnant, its just the way it goes I guess. I am delighted for my sister, really am, if I never end up getting a BFP at least there will be a new baby in the family one way or another. It must've been awful for you to have all those pregnancies around you when you were ttc. If I'd got pregnant in the same month as my sister we both would've been due on exactly the same day as our cycles are in sync!

Go luck to us on our BFP in a few days then ;o)

aww hunni i know its hard!!! i feel exactly the same, some days i feel like that too. Im the only one out of my family who hasn't got kids yet apart from my 16 yr old brother (which is a good thing lol) but i feel so left out. It is hard but you have to keep fighting on and stop beating yourself up over it, think of it as inspiration! imagine one day like your neighbour you will be home with your new born xxxx

hi...i know what you mean about putting on a brave fake smile.....we started ttc around the same time as my husband sister.....she did a big announcment on new years eve that she was expecting....it hurt like hell to be honest...my husband was just so happy but i cried as i wanted it to be us celebrating this good news....she had the baby 5 weeks ago & we are still ttc....its been 14 mths now of ttc & its just getting sooo hard. Think AF arrived today.....seeing the fs 2moro again...she wasnt much hepl ast time we saw her, booked me in 4 a hycosy & said see u in 8 weeks....i thought god couldnt of that been done over the phone like 2 mths ago!!! we had waited ages 4 the appointment to see her!!!

my step sister started ttc in april & fell preg on her honeymoon in may....my other sister has been ttc since april & i know it sounds awful but im dreading the day she has conceived if we are not preg by then....i judt dont think i can put on a brave face around anymore preg people!!! i have about 5 friends that are preg at the moment & its sooo hard...evry time i log on to facebook i see another staus with 'just felt my baby kick!!' or 'im happy to announce we are 13 weeks preg!!'

when is it gonna be our mth...???? every mth we say maybe next mth....i just dont think its ever gonna happen xxxxx

That's my situation also. I'm the black sheep.

I hear what you are saying, I count my lucky stars everyday for my little miracle that happened and I know that I am lucky. My OH and I have done it before so we should be able to do it again, just gotta be patient.


I needed your comment actually, its helped me focus on what I already have rather than what I want - so thank you!

Awww hun So sorry to read of all the troubles you've experienced. Feels like everyone is rubbing it in your face doesn't it?