HI Ladies,

I miscarried last weekend - i didnt react how i thought i would about it, i'm being very strong and somehow not dwelling on it too much. We cried Monday together and got up Tuesday as a new start.

Now when i cry - its not for my loss its for what i have in store. I emotionally feel ready to try again (although can't yet as i'm bleeding) but the thought of this happening again, makes me burst into tears, while i have been so strong this time i'm not sure how strong i can be next time and i can't keep putting myself through it.

I'm getting annoyed and upset as i thought today the bleeding had stopped and we could start again, but no! And to add to my worry and anxiousness (however spelt) last time we got pregant first month trying, what if it doesnt happen straight away this time - i just know i will be stressing and worrying that my loss was my only chance.

Sorry to sound so down about it all - iam being positive, HONEST! Just needed to get it all of my chest in the hope of a reply from someone who felt the same and has gone on to have a successfull preganancy!

Going through a m/c is awful. It will always be there but you will get stronger everyday... well so I am told. I am in my first month following a mc and we are trying to conceive again right away. I have my days that I am 100% positive and then days that I am 100% negative. Talk to those around you and the girls here to help you get through those bad days.

It is SO soon after your mc. Give yourself time to heal. It took me 24 days after my mc to ovulate so you have time. We weren't even trying when I got pregnant and it was our first so I too have had those feelings of what if I ruined my only chance. But then I know that is crazy and I have no reason to feel like that. Getting pregnant will happen. Try to think positive but if you need I and all the girls on bnb are here to pick you up.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Hi, I am also in my 1st month of ttc after a m/c on 28 sept. I know exactly what you mean about crying for what might happen if you were to get pregnant again, as this is exactly how I feel!
I want to believe that there is no reason why I cannot get pregnant again straight away and go on to have a perfectly healthy baby, but right now Im so scared that it will never happen again, or I will have yet another miscarriage.
I am starting to feel more optimistic after reading so many posts on this site of the success stories after m/c, and so just to let you know that you are not alone in this, and I am thinking of you. xx

you dont always have to be strong darling, i know it is hard to succumb to those feelings but it is important that you grieve for the baby you lost. I cant imagine how hard it must be, TTC after a loss. the first time you get pregnant you dont really know what you are letting yourself in for but the second/third/whatever time.... you know what is at stake.

Wishing you luck dear

Hello misskat and all of you ladies,

It is so so nice to read you all, and to know we are all in the same situation.
Are you all TTC right now? Did you leave a period between periode and MC? When will you test?
I had a MC the 3d of October, just over 2 weeks ago, and I TTC after 8 days, I felt ready. I have absolutely no idea when I am supposed to ovulate though! My husband is now away for a week, so I hope that I already had my ovulation.
Like you misskat, I felt pregnant 1st month trying and I am worried that he may take me months and months to fall again! Although, people have said that you are more fertile after MC....
Ladies, let's keep each other up dated....... lots of kisses

hello ladies, i am sorry for your losses, my DH and i are ttc after a mmc sept 15th we were told we didn't have to wait a cycle we could go straight away so we didn't wait a cycle but i think as long as you don't have any complications and are feeling ready then go for it.

I also mc at the beginning of September and worry constantly that I lost my only chance

I went on to ttc straight away as my mc was early (5 weeks). I tested negative pretty much straight away after the bleeding stopped and we were told by our GP is was ok to try again straight away.

I'm so sorry for all your losses and wish you all the luck in the world xx

I have had two late losses and as much as it is scary to continue to TTC afterwards, it is something you just have to do. Eyes on the prize and all that.

TTC will be a focus and something positive to think about while coping with your grief. x

I am TTC right away, didn't wait for a period inbetween. I've been temping and I used OPKs this month so I know I o'd 8 days ago. I'm planning on testing this upcoming Saturday the 24th (14 dpo). I'm so scared as I feel that if I am not pg I might have to face some of the emotions that I shoved aside following the mc and if I am I'll be so nervous to do anything in fear that it will happen again. We weren't even trying when I got pg last time. I hope actually focusing on it this month will get us another BFP that sticks.

Wishing for BFP and no more saddness for anyone here.

Good luck < 3 Always!!! Fingers X
I am not using anything, so I hope I ovulated this week!!! I don't have any symptoms of ovulation either! Well if not this month, next one!!!! Let us know!!!!! xxxxxxxxx