I can't handle yet another friend getting pregnant...

scorpiodragon · Oct 14th, 2009, 17:32 PM

I am really struggling with everyone around me being pregnant, obviously I am happy for them but it is killing me inside... Of course this doesn't include all of my BnB friends even though it still hurts a little when I see the announcements and it feels like everyone but me is moving on to first trimester... it is MUCH different dealing with my IRL friends that are pregnant... I guess it has a lot to do with the fact that my due date of my MMC is coming up in a few weeks and that is like a knife in my heart... I currently have my best friend, my SIL, and 4 friends, it is overwhelming!! All I want to be is pregnant again!! It hurts me so much that I would be due with my little one in a few weeks and I been having problems since my miscarriage... ugh I just feel so sad it aches! I know my time will come but I guess I just need to get this achy horrible feeling off my chest...
Thanks for listening to my rant!
xxx

cleebyjeeby · Oct 14th, 2009, 17:36 PM

Thinking of you xx its very hard xx

Waiting2bMommy · Oct 14th, 2009, 17:37 PM

I was feeling much the same today. It's so hard when you want it so much. But our time will come and it will be worth the wait!

Ava Grace · Oct 14th, 2009, 17:39 PM

aww hun it will happen for you soon i'm sure. I know how you feel about everyone around you I have the same thing but stay positive.

Keep your chin up. Sending you hugs and baby dust xxxxxxxxxxxx

Froggirl1985 · Oct 14th, 2009, 17:42 PM

Walking round Asda today and it was pretty quiet, apart from the 7, yes 7 hugely pregnant women walking round. The thing that bugged me most is that when leaving, one of them (looked about 16 years old) had a FAG hangin out of her mouth! I was disgusted. We're all tryin so hard, and then some people just take it for granted.

I felt ready for cryin by the time I got back to the car....

FX for u all!

SxXx

ohmybabybump. · Oct 14th, 2009, 18:54 PM

i definitely kno how u feel deal with it everyday its not fair!! but our time will come.

charmed · Oct 14th, 2009, 18:58 PM

hi im just the same found out pak expecting her 3rd n is already 5 months gone, didnt find out to a week ago, im mega happy for her just jealous i guess, am i a bad friend x

impatient · Oct 14th, 2009, 19:01 PM

I know how you feel! I've only been officially TTC for 1 month(unofficially for a year) but my friends have been having babies like CRAZY for a few years now. We actually waited for the right time; we have good jobs, a nice house, a little eatra money and I'm affarid its not going to happen for me. It's so depressing...like that's what I get for being responsible!

maratobe · Oct 14th, 2009, 19:03 PM

it is hard to see other ladies specially friends find out they are pregnant...i find it hard to be around my friends cause they are and i just keep thinking to my self that my time will come!

and yours will too darling!!

scorpiodragon · Oct 14th, 2009, 22:26 PM

Thanks for the great support everyone!

to you all, just feeling down today... people also keep asking when we are having another and it just adds to the frustration!

Oct 14th, 2009, 17:32 PM	#1
scorpiodragon Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 1,194	I can't handle yet another friend getting pregnant... I am really struggling with everyone around me being pregnant, obviously I am happy for them but it is killing me inside... Of course this doesn't include all of my BnB friends even though it still hurts a little when I see the announcements and it feels like everyone but me is moving on to first trimester... it is MUCH different dealing with my IRL friends that are pregnant... I guess it has a lot to do with the fact that my due date of my MMC is coming up in a few weeks and that is like a knife in my heart... I currently have my best friend, my SIL, and 4 friends, it is overwhelming!! All I want to be is pregnant again!! It hurts me so much that I would be due with my little one in a few weeks and I been having problems since my miscarriage... ugh I just feel so sad it aches! I know my time will come but I guess I just need to get this achy horrible feeling off my chest... Thanks for listening to my rant! xxx

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Oct 14th, 2009, 17:36 PM	#2
cleebyjeeby Trying to conceive (TTC) Inactive Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 134	Thinking of you xx its very hard xx

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Oct 14th, 2009, 17:37 PM	#3
Waiting2bMommy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: California & Oklahoma Posts: 9,209	I was feeling much the same today. It's so hard when you want it so much. But our time will come and it will be worth the wait!

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Oct 14th, 2009, 17:39 PM	#4
Ava Grace Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Milton keynes Posts: 2,815	aww hun it will happen for you soon i'm sure. I know how you feel about everyone around you I have the same thing but stay positive. Keep your chin up. Sending you hugs and baby dust xxxxxxxxxxxx

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Oct 14th, 2009, 17:42 PM	#5
Froggirl1985 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Bolton UK Posts: 340	Walking round Asda today and it was pretty quiet, apart from the 7, yes 7 hugely pregnant women walking round. The thing that bugged me most is that when leaving, one of them (looked about 16 years old) had a FAG hangin out of her mouth! I was disgusted. We're all tryin so hard, and then some people just take it for granted. I felt ready for cryin by the time I got back to the car.... FX for u all! SxXx

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Oct 14th, 2009, 18:54 PM	#6
ohmybabybump. Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Virginia Posts: 828	i definitely kno how u feel deal with it everyday its not fair!! but our time will come.

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Oct 14th, 2009, 18:58 PM	#7
charmed Waiting To Try (WTT) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: east anglia Posts: 836	hi im just the same found out pak expecting her 3rd n is already 5 months gone, didnt find out to a week ago, im mega happy for her just jealous i guess, am i a bad friend x

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Oct 14th, 2009, 19:01 PM	#8
impatient Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: New England, USA Posts: 464	I know how you feel! I've only been officially TTC for 1 month(unofficially for a year) but my friends have been having babies like CRAZY for a few years now. We actually waited for the right time; we have good jobs, a nice house, a little eatra money and I'm affarid its not going to happen for me. It's so depressing...like that's what I get for being responsible!

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Oct 14th, 2009, 19:03 PM	#9
maratobe Other BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Warrnambool Australia Posts: 5,381	it is hard to see other ladies specially friends find out they are pregnant...i find it hard to be around my friends cause they are and i just keep thinking to my self that my time will come! and yours will too darling!!

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Oct 14th, 2009, 22:26 PM	#10
scorpiodragon Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Montreal, Canada Posts: 1,194	Thanks for the great support everyone! to you all, just feeling down today... people also keep asking when we are having another and it just adds to the frustration!

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