1st try, two BFNs and giving up. :(

beatnick · Oct 11th, 2009, 05:50 AM

This is our first go at ttc. Its been a whirlwind of "how do you feel nows" and checking symptoms here there and everywhere.

About 8dpo I had sudden nausea out of the blue and was starting to think ITS HAPPENING! as I never suffer with sickness!

Im now 12dpo and took a test this morning. BFN.

I am due AF on tuesday and yesterday (saturday) had quite noticable (as in I wasnt looking for it) period pains which have since faded. I do not suffer with period pains until the day of AF usually.

Have had strong sense of smell, constipation, hard boobs, bumps on nips, nausea, twinges blah blah. But no CM at all which is unusual for me. (?)

Feel completely like im out now and feel gutted. I know all the stuff about waiting for AF Day but I cant seem to shake this feeling that I now have to wait for ages to try again.

bbbbbbbbbbbllllllllllllllllluuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggg

BrookieG · Oct 11th, 2009, 05:54 AM

aww hun you never out until

appears!!! fingers crossed for you xx

crossroads · Oct 11th, 2009, 05:54 AM

Sorry that you feel so bad. I felt the same for my first cycle. It dawns on you that it's going to take longer than you had anticipated.

Don't lose hope

Keep trying x

beadyeyes · Oct 11th, 2009, 06:09 AM

I feel the same beatnick. First month TTC for #1. Few symptoms but nothign out of the ordinary. 6DPO but Ov on day 21 on what is normally a 29/30 day cycle so hoping for a longer cycle this month at least of a bfp as I don't want to have a short luteal phase. boo! This waiting is awful.

mlyn26 · Oct 11th, 2009, 06:25 AM

You never know, could be too early to test, good luck x

NG09 · Oct 11th, 2009, 06:26 AM

Me too, having loads of cramping, feeling sick, tired, constipated etc not due on until 22/10 but feels like forever. Had some very light bleeding last week for a day or two but don't know if that's a good or bad thing!!!! This is torture!!!!!!!!!!!!

lvh05 · Oct 13th, 2009, 22:52 PM

Welcome to the wretched world of TTC! It will play mind games on you.

You may still have a chance. If you were on the pill before, you may have O'd late, causing a delay in the positive test.

Or, maybe you're stressing too much, and it's delaying your period. The mind is an amazing thing, and it can cause you to overemphasize things.

Good luck and

to you! I hope it is your month, but the best (and worst) part is, there is always next month (and if you're like some of us, the next and the next.) But, no matter what, you can't give up! Holding that baby is too precious.

Waiting2bMommy · Oct 13th, 2009, 23:36 PM

Don't loose hope!! Your never out till that old

comes!! Fingers crossed for you!

SarahMelissa · Oct 13th, 2009, 23:52 PM

You are never out until the witch comes so dont give up hope yet and even if she does come never never never give up, i just got my

2 days ago and my first try was way back in January, best of luck to you and remember dont ever give up!

Someday-Baby · Oct 14th, 2009, 01:29 AM

Keep your chin up! I have read a lot of stories of women who didn't get a BFP until until 14DPO+! I agree with the PP, until AF arrives, you're still in the game!

Oct 11th, 2009, 05:50 AM	#1
beatnick Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Hampshire UK Posts: 1,766	1st try, two BFNs and giving up. :( This is our first go at ttc. Its been a whirlwind of "how do you feel nows" and checking symptoms here there and everywhere. About 8dpo I had sudden nausea out of the blue and was starting to think ITS HAPPENING! as I never suffer with sickness! Im now 12dpo and took a test this morning. BFN. I am due AF on tuesday and yesterday (saturday) had quite noticable (as in I wasnt looking for it) period pains which have since faded. I do not suffer with period pains until the day of AF usually. Have had strong sense of smell, constipation, hard boobs, bumps on nips, nausea, twinges blah blah. But no CM at all which is unusual for me. (?) Feel completely like im out now and feel gutted. I know all the stuff about waiting for AF Day but I cant seem to shake this feeling that I now have to wait for ages to try again. bbbbbbbbbbbllllllllllllllllluuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggg

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Oct 11th, 2009, 05:54 AM	#2
BrookieG Trying to conceive (TTC) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: dundee,scotland Posts: 2,121	aww hun you never out until appears!!! fingers crossed for you xx

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crossroads Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Newcastle, UK Posts: 4,424	Sorry that you feel so bad. I felt the same for my first cycle. It dawns on you that it's going to take longer than you had anticipated. Don't lose hope Keep trying x

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Oct 11th, 2009, 06:09 AM	#4
beadyeyes Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Teesside Posts: 337	I feel the same beatnick. First month TTC for #1. Few symptoms but nothign out of the ordinary. 6DPO but Ov on day 21 on what is normally a 29/30 day cycle so hoping for a longer cycle this month at least of a bfp as I don't want to have a short luteal phase. boo! This waiting is awful.

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mlyn26 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 6,450	You never know, could be too early to test, good luck x

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NG09 Press/Research BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4,210	Me too, having loads of cramping, feeling sick, tired, constipated etc not due on until 22/10 but feels like forever. Had some very light bleeding last week for a day or two but don't know if that's a good or bad thing!!!! This is torture!!!!!!!!!!!!

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lvh05 Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Florida Posts: 370	Welcome to the wretched world of TTC! It will play mind games on you. You may still have a chance. If you were on the pill before, you may have O'd late, causing a delay in the positive test. Or, maybe you're stressing too much, and it's delaying your period. The mind is an amazing thing, and it can cause you to overemphasize things. Good luck and to you! I hope it is your month, but the best (and worst) part is, there is always next month (and if you're like some of us, the next and the next.) But, no matter what, you can't give up! Holding that baby is too precious.

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Oct 13th, 2009, 23:36 PM	#8
Waiting2bMommy Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: California & Oklahoma Posts: 9,209	Don't loose hope!! Your never out till that old comes!! Fingers crossed for you!

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SarahMelissa Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Brisbane, Queensland, Australia Posts: 4,457	You are never out until the witch comes so dont give up hope yet and even if she does come never never never give up, i just got my 2 days ago and my first try was way back in January, best of luck to you and remember dont ever give up!

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Someday-Baby Trying to conceive (TTC) Inactive Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 35	Keep your chin up! I have read a lot of stories of women who didn't get a BFP until until 14DPO+! I agree with the PP, until AF arrives, you're still in the game!

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