I agree, some people don't understand how lucky they are, and they should think a bit more carefully before they say something potentially hurtful, even if they have no intention of being hurtful.

I still have hope ladies, we will all be blessed one day whether it be for the first time, or second or third, it will happen.

I think that the real problem with friends that concieve really easily and use throw away comments is that they have no concept of what it feels like to have tried for a baby for years and still do not have one to hold in there arms!!! it that age old thing of you have to personally go through it yourself to really appriceate how soul destroying it really is!!!

Good luck to all TTC Im right there with you