Hi ladies,

I was just wondering if any of you would be willing to share you ttc/pregnancy after miscarriage stories with me. I could really use to some encouragement right now, I know its still early. But I could use a lift up!

How long did it take?

Did you try right away?

Was it emotionally harder at all?

Were you more scared?

Thanks!!

(I hope I posted this in the right place...Im still sort of foggy from the pain meds!! )

I would love to hear some stories also! Hang in there hun.. this is sooooo hard but I know that we can make it through!

Hi!
I miscarried at the end of November and had a medical abortion at 6th of December. I was in a lot of pain and it was awful. My doctor told me to wait at least 3 to 6 month. I decided to start trying right away, because I was only 6+1weeks and I recovered very quickly. Although emotionally it took a while to recover. For two weeks I cried every day, I even went to counsellor and she helped me a little. I knew that the pain will go away with a new pregnancy, but we are still trying and nothing.. It's third month already but I'm starting to think that I won't get pregnant ever again, it just seems so unimaginable now. And yes TTC is now emotionally a lot harder than for the first time I got pregnant. I would imagine, that if I eventually get my BFP, it would make me so much more happier, even more than with my first pregnancy. Now I think of my lost baby every day.. I would have been already 20 weeks by now I so hope that I would get pregnant before July, 1st of July was suppose to be my baby due date and now I'm crying again.......

So sorry for your loss, I'm sending you big hugs! Best of luck to you x

I miscarried in November and was advised to wait until my cycle returned to normal. My DH and i thought whatevers to be is to be. We carried on BDing once the bleeding stopped although we weren't actively trying. I got my BFP in December. I was so excited but not so much as the 1st time. I have my 12 week scan today so i'm hoping that will but my mind at ease. My doctor also told me it was a good sign i got pregnant so quickly as it meant my body was ready this time. So don't be giving up it is possible. Good luck.

Hi Ladies, I was tcc for 6 months then I got pregnant and at 6 weeks I had a miscarrage last november. I am tcc again now I started straight after I stopped bleeding and yes it is a rollercoaster ride with emotions. Thinking I really want a baby but what if it happens again.
I am in the 2ww now and I really want a BFP but then I feel scared it might happen again. I cried non stop for ages too. But then you have to think you have to move on I will never forget my baby but I want to move forward and try again.
Good Luck for a future BFP.
Luv Cheryl xxx

Thanks so much for starting this post. Although sorry to hear such sad stories, it's good to share.

Following HSG and other fertility tests we were told that we had unexplained infertility. But then, on 27th December we found out we were pregnant and were completely overjoyed. Sadly we miscarried on 5th January at 5 weeks. We had a scan on the 12th and found everything had come away so no need for D&C. We've both been really really sad, but were told to start trying again straight away. We've been DTD like mad and keeping fingers crossed. Obviously have absolutely no idea where I am in my cycle, but I thought I'd try to give it till the end of February before I do a test if I haven't had the by then. Hope to get lucky, but if not then it's good to have all you girls to talk to to try and keep spirits up. This site is a blessing.

Good luck to everyone x

Hi Jacky. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You're story has made me cry , and I can't begin to imagine how you coped with this. You must be a very strong person, and I really admire you. Good luck TTC. I hope it all goes well, and you get a BFP really soon. PM if you want a chat

I miscarried on 22nd January at 5 weeks. We have been advised my the nurse not to ttc until I have had my 1st period (which I am still waiting for). I have done the same as doctordeemrs and not activitely ttc this month, but at the same time done nothing to prevent. What will be will be. I am more adamant now that I want a baby as soon as possible, and don't want to wait 12 months again. So it is definitely harder than before.
Although, its hard, it does feel better sharing these experiences