Uvlollypop

i had whats called a missed MC with my daughter, i had lots more scans than normal because she was suspected to have spina bifida (scans eneded up showing that everything was fine) at my 28week growth scan the baby was really low and they couldnt see her head so i had to go back the next day to be scanned by a consultant who told me my girls heart had stopped and they couldnt tell me why, i had be be induced i was given hormone tablets and sent home for three days (with my dead baby inside me) i went in to the hospital on the third day at 11am and had a membrane sweap and a hormone drip i went through labour (which was a beautiful expierance) and gave birth at 7.19pm that day my first instint was to hold her and listen for her cry but her cry never came. she was beautful and looked just like me, i had her cremated and still have her ashes now, that was on fed 16-07.

i got pregnant a few months later and suffered a missed MC again no bleeding no signs just like last time, i walked into the scan room and as soon as the image came up on the screen i knew there was no heart beat, i went in for a d+c the next day.

Mervs Mum

Thats awful.

MrsStevens76

Well I actually started trying right away but AF is knocking on my door

This was my first cycle since my mc. I did ovulate but my body is just adjusting still I suppose. I am going to keep trying. I hope that I will be back to normal this month and get my BFP but I suppose one never knows. Sorry for your loss. Good luck!

Phexia

I mc'd in december 2001, waited a month and then tried again. I got pregnant in february-march 2002 and gave birth in november. The result is watching Dora the explorer right in front of me

I do still remember the sorrow, I was so surprised when it happened because I didn't know it was so common to mc But time has healed the sorrow and I rarely think about it today.

Good luck

hayley352

i admire all of u girls, im trying to concieve my first and have not suffered any mc's. reading all of your stories makes me think how stupid i have been getting wound up that i have not concieved yet when there are loads of girls like u all going through those terrible times.

lots of hugs to all of you and babydust your way xxx

wantababybump

I conceived the end of October 2007 and m/c December 25, 2007. I woke up Christmas morning bleeding quite heavily and knew I was m/c. I climbed back in to bed and told my DH I was losing the baby, trying to be the pos. one he said it's probbly just your body and you will be fine...I told him no, I was really losing the baby. There was some clotting in the blood and I was having some cramping. We went to the hospital that afternoon after opening presents (I told my DH that if I was m/c there was nothing no one could do and I wanted to wait and spend my christmas morning the way we had planned then go to the hospital) and waited for hours for blood tests and they cleaned up the clotting some and I went back home. By 9pm I was in severe pain and couldnt stop crying I went back to the hospital and got there around 11pm they gave me some pain meds took some more blood and cleaned out the clotting again. They pulled out one big clot which they said they believed to be the baby. I was so sad, I wanted this baby so bad. I wasnt that far along but I was still so attatched. The doc told me that I felt fine inside and that I would likely have no problems conceiving again, but I should wait until I have at least one regular AF.We waited until after I stopped bleeding and are TTC again using a OV calendar. Right now I am waiting...I am having some light spotting but 6 days late and some symptoms; nausea, heartburn, slightly tender boobs but keep getting BFN so Im not sure what is going on with me...I dont want to get too excited incase im really not. After having the m/c it was emotionally hard because I just kept thinking about the baby I should be carrying and seeing all my friends with their baby bumps when it also should be me. I should be 18 weeks right now and due in July but instead im ttc again. I am very scared because I keep thinking about what can happen if Im pregnant again and if it will happen. I hope this helps.

I am so sorry for all of your losses. Good luck to all of you who are ttc I hope you get your baby! <3 My love goes out to all of you.

Dee_H

My husband and I had been TTC for quite a few years. We got married last June and got pregnant in October of the same year. We were elated..family and friends were thrilled..we waited so long for this. On January 12 (3 months along) I went to a friends house for dinner. After dinner I went to the bathroom and noticed I was spotting..up to this point besides morning sickness I was feeling great. I got my friend to take me to the hospital...after waiting for 4 hours the doc examined me and did blood work. They said my cervix was closed and to go home...they would contact me if my bloodwork came back abnormal. I stayed at my mom's house as my husband was away in PEI for training. The next morning I was eating breakfast and I had the sudden urge to have a BM. As I stood up to go to the bathroom I could feel something running down my leg. I got in the bathroom and I just started bleeding everywhere. My mom rushed me to the hospital.They hooked me up to an IV to pump me full of fluid so I could have an ultrasound. Meanwhile the docs are very concerned about my blood loss. So I have my ultrasound...there is no sign of a living baby..no heartbeat. nothing. The docs then put oxytocin in my IV and sent me to the OR for emergency d&c as I would not stop bleeding. I had to pee from all the fluid I had before the ultrasound. I went in the bathroom and I could feel the baby coming out..I screamed for the nurse and my mom. The nurse sat there with me and cried as she told me I had to push it out.I looked down and saw it..oh god that was awful. Everything we hoped for...gone just like that. The first 2 weeks were horrible but it got better and continues to get better. I just had my first period since the m/c and DH and I are back on the babymaking train. It makes me anxious to think this will happen again but this is something we want and won't give up. Sorry for such a long post but i think I needed to get this off my chest. I wish you all good luck in TTC and for a healthy 9 months. Thanks for allowing me to share my story.

peanut31

So sorry to her everyones stories, unfortunately i have another to add to this thread. We've been married 3 years and finally decided it was time. We got a bfp after only one month ttc and we were completely thrilled but ... I had a natural mc @ 5wks on 1/30 ,hubby's birthday :'( Well we were told to wait one cycle, oops we started to bd right after i stopped bleeding. I hope we caught an eggie, but i happen to get a nasty UTI (sorry TMI) on Fri and i think I o'd (really dark line on OPK on Thursday...first time using them) so we didn't bd the day of or after but bd'd mon-wed ... who know i think i am 7 dpo. What do you think? Do you think i have a chance?