My SO and I are going to be TTC in about a month, maybe sooner. We do have a concern though. This may be TMI but...

About a year ago we tried having sex without a condom, and his foreskin tore where it connects to the penis, he bled a LOT (he lost his virginity to me). Since then we've always worn condoms so that wouldn't happen anymore. Since we're going to be TTC though, condoms are obviously out of the question. Has anybody else experienced this? Since it already tore once do you think it will happen again? We're going to practice without a condom tonight, and plenty of lubrication. However, I'd rather not use lubrication when we TTC since from what I hear it can hinder the sperms swimming abilities. Are there any other types of lubricants that wont? TMI again but I dont produce very much of my own

If anybody could help I'd greatly appreciate it. You ladies are awesome!

there's one called preseed - it's ok to use when TTC

he should make sure he's not pulled back before he enters you - may sound erm pervy but if he practices pulling himself back it'll stretch the skin so that it's less likely to happen during BDing

ahh its happened to my oh about 6 times in 4 years, only a bit of blood once. Someimtes im not welcoming enough for him down there tmi! The best thing i can say is to have a lot of forplay to get the juices going i find this helps to if the penis gets a bit wet the problem doesnt happen. Also when he enters you do it really slowly like in stages if you think your a bit tight.

Ive tried preseed but you have o insert it near your cervix i think if some of it is put on the head of the penis too this will help. (It doesnt say to do that but i imagine there wouldnt be any problem!

Good luck it is a pain!

God I love having a circumcised partner :>

Thanks! I've never heard of preseed, is it just at regular drug stores? Or would I have to special order it? I like the idea of going real slow, and I LOVE the idea of more foreplay Thanks for the advice!

this is the only way to stop it happening - PERMENANTLY! My first boyf suffered with this - I believe the technical term is 'Snapping ones banjo string'...

He was circumcised - job sorted!

Banjo String Breakage is rather common but a little bit frightening for the partner. What one might use to avoid one's banjo string being snapped (and to promote freeflowing banjo music) is, indeed, Pre Seed.

Can get it on ebay, two for one offer. Its not that expensive and actually feels a lot nicer than KY.

Do it.

It will make it all smoother!

^^^

Hehe, thanks! I will definitely look into getting some soon! We tried last night with plenty of KY and it went okay.I had no idea it was that common, and neither did my bf. Poor guy was so embarassed the first time it happened and I felt like the big mean vagina that did it to him!

Haha! Dont forget KY kills the so you will need some pre-seed.