Oh NeyNey... That really touched a cord w/ me as well. My DH's nickname in German is "murgu"... there's no good translation, but it basically means someone who NEVER shows emotion or feeling. Ever. So I know how it is to be able to become completely ignorant that ttc affects our men too... Bless you both!
Aw hun, it must be so frustrating for you both after trying for so long as suppose he's just finding it really disappointing like you say you don't imagine you're going to come across these problems until you start trying. Give him a bit of TLC, you will get there one day xxx
I have done that to my DH as well. I have said how upset I am and he always listens but not too long ago he asked me, "How do you think I feel?" I felt awful. I guess this just shows us how much our men love us and wish for a family with us, right?
Don't worry. I am confident that we will both have our BFP too!!!