Angel

It's devastating that your baby didn't survive,but it doesn't mean that he didn't exist especially since he was about full term.Some people don't think before they say things,I am sure she didn't mean to hurt you,but I can really understand why you are hurt about it.I haven't lost a child but I know the bond we as Mother's form with our babies when they are inside us is special,and I can't imagine what you have gone through.I pray that these pills help you to conceive soon and that you have a healthy pregnancy.
Look after yourself most of all,and talk about it whenever you need to,bottling things up won't do you any good,we are always here to listen.

jacky24

Thanks ANGEL.

That is unfortunately how she is she does say things to hurt people, but i don't take her to heart cause i actually feel sorry for her, when i was pregnant she tried every single month to fall pregnant, but never did. And her husband is and was never really interested in falling pregnant, and till today her husband want's nothing really to do with her pregnancy, i see it as her way of trying to make herself feel better in some way, and i have told her many of times no matter what she had done to me durring and after my pregnancy i will atleast be there for her cause sad as it is she really doesn't have anyone, she is going thru her pregnancy alone cause people are mad at her for what she had done to me in my pregnancy.

Thank you for all your support, i have an important few months ahead of me and i need to stay focused on that now. Hope we chat soon again.

The Catster

Jacky....sorry for the loss of your 2 little ones!!!!!

Good luck with the Clomid....ignore your SIL, silly witch!

U sound like a very nice person...and nice things happen to nice people and things are sent to test us!!!!!

Take care!

Tiani

Thank you ladies, reading all your posts has given me hope and I'm resolved to keep trying.

I know I've left it late, I'm 48 now but am a young healthy 48. My periods have been coming more frequent than normal lately and seem to continue (really faintly) almost all through the month.

At the beginning of October i tried a 5 day course of Fertomid. I had planned to try again on the second month but I didn't get a period at all, absolutely nothing except period pains which disappeared as fast as they came.

I'm now 3 weeks late which is unheard of for me and have done about 6 pregnancy tests which are completely negative. I've had a lot of nausea but no tender boobs. I daren't try another course untill I've had a period just incase by some miracle I have succeeded and am pregnant.

Of course at my age I could just be misfiring but a missed period is completely unusual for me.

Has anyone any experience of taking Fertomid later as an older TTC? Or any experience or knowledge of it causing a missed period?

Any help or advice welcome.

T

The Catster

I hope you are pg!!!! It may just be that your HCG levels aren't increasing at the normal rate and u may be indeed preggers????
Coz clomid makes that egg come down, so u r more likely to get ur AF, not the other way.....
Look at this site about HCG levels.....
http://www.betabase.info/showBasicChart.php?type=Single

Hope this helps!!!

xx

Tiani

ahhh haaaa found you, not used to the site yet and i lost the thread....so to speak. Losing the plot now lol

Thanks for the link, very interesting. I tried another test at the beggining of this week, still neg. Now due on again this weekend so we'll see what happens. It's funny now I actually WANT to come on so i know everything is normal and i can have another go with fertomid.

I really dont want to confess to my GP, when i asked his advice about trying to conceive he told me not to be so stupid and dismissed me completely.

Fingers crossed for something to happen one way or the other.

Thanks again

The Catster

NP and GL!!!!!!

xxx