HI all

i used 2 have normal periods...but for the last 4 - 5 cycles its been weird...starts with spotting then is light - med for a day and then its just brown stuff for a few days


why this change...i used 2 be 7 days normal flow

now even the PMS starts way early...this cycle for 2 weeks before AF i had MAJORLY sore boobs

my body is nuts....everytime i wana ttc my body revolts on me grrrrrr

i've had sore boobs for the past 6 days as well and according to my chart i only ovulated a few days ago when i thought id ovulated mid cycle and my chart was wrong lol. Have you just come off bcp?

nopes i havent taken any form of bc since i got married nearly 4 years ago

i used 2 chart ... n temp etc but just nothing came of it so i gave up coz it was stressing me out 2 much...

and now when i thought my cycles were (relatively) normal...this happens

*sob*

Don't really have any advice for you but thought you could use a

I think I read somewhere that sore bbs can happen right after o'ing 'cause of the progesterone, which, if you have a 28-day cycle, would mean 2 weeks b/f AF - so that could be a good thing!!! ... and don't worry, changes in your af flow are totally normal as you get older - I've had the same thing! Mine is now only 4 days and sounds just like yours, and my doc says its fine!
Try not to stress about that part, but if you're really worried, go see your doc - it put my mind at rest!

I second Swiss Miss. My cycles have changed recently. I think it's a combination of being off the pill for 7 months now so my body's just adapting and age (roughly translated as - getting old!). O, and Mother Nature deciding to really screw with my mind just as I decide to start TTCing!

Thanks everyone for your replies

AT the mo i am living in saudi arabia as my hubby is working here so the fact that i cannot really leave the house alone doesnt help...

and combined with the fact that hubby wud rather not have a baby rite now...well ....what can i say

and anytime i have seen a doc previously...all i get told is relax..

after nearly 4 years and not even having anything wrong i HATE it when they say that .... and then everyone around, friends and family are popping out kids and i get the "look" like whats wrong with you GRRRRRR

btw i am Pakistani Brit so ppl at home just expect me to hav kids and there is a lot of pressure and now i just kids as i am approaching 32 and i always wanted to have kids young as i was adopted and my mum was 38 when she adopted me so the age diff made a HUGE difference on our relationship

anyway i guess ...i duno ...sometimes i feel like i am going nuts