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Feb 4th, 2008, 12:48 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | I find it difficult to BD every other day for another reason....I feel that it's a loss of control. When I'm due to Ovulate, BDing every other day doesn't seem like enough. For instance, we'll BD on Sunday night and afterwards I'll lie there thinking "OMG...we're not supposed to do it again until Tuesday night??? What if I Ovulate Tuesday afternoon??
I find that I want to BD too much and I really think that I deplete my DH's supply...probably to the point where it's causing us problems!
I SUCK |
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Feb 4th, 2008, 12:56 PM
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Originally Posted by CapitalChick  I find it difficult to BD every other day for another reason....I feel that it's a loss of control. When I'm due to Ovulate, BDing every other day doesn't seem like enough. For instance, we'll BD on Sunday night and afterwards I'll lie there thinking "OMG...we're not supposed to do it again until Tuesday night??? What if I Ovulate Tuesday afternoon??
I find that I want to BD too much and I really think that I deplete my DH's supply...probably to the point where it's causing us problems!
I SUCK | I don't find that cause its better to have a supply of sperm waiting for when the egg is realeased and sperm can last for up to 72 hours inside your body so every other night should mean you have a good supply of sperm waiting |
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Feb 4th, 2008, 14:42 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | My plan is BD every other day from AF and then more round O then when we fancy it after O.
What happened this month was that we 'peaked' a little early we didnt do it as much as we would have liked right after O. Oh well, we're not machines and I dont think its good to have to force yourself. There's a difference between being a bit tired and thinking 'if I wasnt fertile I'd probably give it a miss tonight' and 'I'm soooooooo not wanting to BD...I CANT DO THIS!!'
I dont want to end up it being the later and still trying to do it. |
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Feb 4th, 2008, 18:54 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | good questions!!! im still confused wit my body, i had a 30 day cycle lastime and usually have 43 and i dont know if i ov coz doc wont do tests am im so irreg!!! but i was due 2 ov last monday n had pains n slight cm but then on friday had mega stringy cm but no pains but was in agony on saturday night with no cm!!!! i now today have a dull ache and have had slight cm so can anyone help?!?!
and yes i usually have sex wen i feel like it but this month we have BD every other day from cd8 and i am findin it a chore n really didnt want 2!!!! god y cant tryin 4 a baby b easy n fun!!! xx |
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Feb 4th, 2008, 19:03 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I know it's all so confusing!!! I thought i would do an opk tonight seeing as though i've spotted the EWCM today and nothing not even a faint line no line whatsoever, think i'm going to give up with them! I taking it that i'm entering my fertile period so will aim to BD for the next couple of weeks and hope to catch the egg!!! |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i wudnt rely on OPK's hunni xxxxx |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | Yep i find BDing every other day difficult. The pressue caused probs so we stopped trying that often. |
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | i don't thing i really mind the BD at all (but it's only being 3 months also) what i mind it's when i think with all the bd with being doing and than i get a BFN it's like a little you are doing your homework and than you get a" F" for failure! |
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Feb 4th, 2008, 21:49 PM
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Originally Posted by miel i don't thing i really mind the BD at all (but it's only being 3 months also) what i mind it's when i think with all the bd with being doing and than i get a BFN it's like a little you are doing your homework and than you get a" F" for failure! | Ha ha, you are SPOT ON!!!  |
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