Trying To Conceive

Tink1o5 · Jan 29th, 2008, 03:05 AM

i went pee after me and the OH bd'd ... is that bad or is that ok to do????

toriaaaaTRASH · Jan 29th, 2008, 03:06 AM

If I was ttc I wouldn't lol

Arcanegirl · Jan 29th, 2008, 03:07 AM

If you need to pee then its best to go, you will give yourself an infection if you try and hold it.

After BD the swimmers will be inside and all that will fall out is semen and defective swimmers.

miel · Jan 29th, 2008, 03:08 AM

i think it's ok (i know i hate to have to go pee right away after ! i tried to hold it as much as i can ) but you know why i think the semen that leaks sometimes afterward when you get up will not have being strong in off to make it any way !
so you can relax and pee at will

Tink1o5 · Jan 29th, 2008, 03:08 AM

Ok thnx arcanegirl, lol cuz i had to go after we did ... and i was like O' S**t lol cuz i didnt even think about it....

Samo · Jan 29th, 2008, 03:12 AM

Some say you should stay in bed for atleast 20 min before rushing off to the bathroom. I can't really say it will or wont harm your chances. I think really it's about gravity, because sperm have to swim up and if you are in an up right position, obviously gravity will pull things down.

However, sperm should know where they are going and right after they are ejaculated they start their journey up and find their way into your cervix and protect themselves in your CM (EWCM is the best environment for them). What comes out of you after BDing is usually the semen and any sperm that weren't strong enough to make it to the cervix. Sperm that are in tip-top shape should be on their way looking for an egg!

diva4180 · Jan 29th, 2008, 05:41 AM

As long as you are having EWCM so the little guys have a healthy enviroment to hang around and make their way towards their goal in, I don't think it matters if you elevate your hips or go to the bathroom. Also, peeing after bd'ing is good because it helps to prevent UTI's or any other infection. Good luck this month hun!