Well me and the OH were talking about our soon to be trip to california to get some furniture and stuff i have down there...

BTW: my father passed away almost 2 years ago, and the storage im going to is all the stuff we had when he passed away.. which equals lots of tears and lots of stress

So i was wondering do u think it would be ok for us to start TTC now or should we wait until we get back from california..that way if we do get preggo i dont hurt the baby by stressing and stuff...??????

TTC can be fun although stressful alone Its also something positive - positive happy thoughts of trying to create your own little family so personally I wouldn't put off collecting your furniture/belongings just maybe take it easy if your in the 2ww is all but saying that we moved when I was 4-5 weeks and I moved some things and bubs is fine.

Sorry to hear about your Dad Tink it must be hard & Im sure memories will be hard on the day. Stay strong x