Thanks ladies

. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for this month, the in-laws have invited us over for their usual big birthday bash at the end of February. I'm hoping if i get a February BFP i can share the news with them while we are over

as we don't get to see them often. I guess if i don't have a February baby...announcing that we're expecting on DH's birthday sounds like a win win situation
but i suppose May isn't too far off, and if it's my fate then i welcome it!
