Jealousy, anger when there should be happiness - Page 4

xkissyx · Sep 8th, 2009, 18:16 PM

hehehe i love it and your so right!! xx

xkissyx · Sep 8th, 2009, 18:17 PM

sham your so right it isn't fair and but life has a way of working these things out and soon enough it will be our turn xx

kit603 · Sep 9th, 2009, 06:39 AM

I've always believed that everything happens for a reason, even if we're not sure what that reason is quite yet. However, that philosophy is making me more and more stressed out these days!

GRR.

pinkclaire · Sep 9th, 2009, 07:28 AM

Hey Kissy I havent read the other posts but hope you dont mind me invading on your post.

I got pregnant and absolutely dreaded telling a couple of my friends who are TTC at the moment. I felt like a complete biatch its unbelievable.

I think you should be honest, I would want my friends to tell me that it bothered them so I could be more sensitive (I am trying) and how it makes them feel. I would completely understand and would be glad they could be open with me so there wasnt that barrier there which I feel like there is at the moment! Its like getting it all in the open helps I think?

Anyway thats my personal opinion not sure if it helps good luck everyone with you TTCs xx

xkissyx · Sep 9th, 2009, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by pinkclaire

Hey Kissy I havent read the other posts but hope you dont mind me invading on your post.

I got pregnant and absolutely dreaded telling a couple of my friends who are TTC at the moment. I felt like a complete biatch its unbelievable.

I think you should be honest, I would want my friends to tell me that it bothered them so I could be more sensitive (I am trying) and how it makes them feel. I would completely understand and would be glad they could be open with me so there wasnt that barrier there which I feel like there is at the moment! Its like getting it all in the open helps I think?

Anyway thats my personal opinion not sure if it helps good luck everyone with you TTCs xx

your right and maybe i should sit and talk with them my friends don't rub it in as they know i've been trying for a while however my cousin's comments don't make things easier i just tend to back off from her when she becomes childish as " shame u can't get knocked up as quick as i did " well.... it's hurtfull i feel for you that have fallen pregnant after trying for a while as u want to shout about it i can imagine your very happy about it and yet you have to hold back somewhat as it's sensative to some people still trying... i see it from all angle's its just so hard to be "normal" about everything but chin up will be worth it in the end xxxx congrats claire

xkissyx · Sep 9th, 2009, 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by kit603

I've always believed that everything happens for a reason, even if we're not sure what that reason is quite yet. However, that philosophy is making me more and more stressed out these days!

GRR.

i'm the same i've lived by the saying " everything happens for a reason" for as long as i can rem i am also still working out what that reason is .... i got thinking that maybe i was supposed to go through all this to realise how precious a gift of a child is before i would have just taken it for granted xx

kit603 · Sep 9th, 2009, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by pinkclaire

I think you should be honest, I would want my friends to tell me that it bothered them so I could be more sensitive (I am trying) and how it makes them feel. I would completely understand and would be glad they could be open with me so there wasnt that barrier there which I feel like there is at the moment! Its like getting it all in the open helps I think?

I think you're right, but I suppose it also depends how close you are to your friends. There are some friends that i'd feel quite comfortable talking to about my jealousy and my problems TTC because I know they'd understand and would try to be there to support me but there are other friends that would probably think i'm just trying to rain on their parade so it depends on the circumstance for me

Thanks for the advice

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Originally Posted by xkissyx

my cousin's comments don't make things easier i just tend to back off from her when she becomes childish as " shame u can't get knocked up as quick as i did "

I can totally understand how hurtful those sorts of comments are, my own cousin came out with a similar comment the other day - although she didn't realise I was having problems TTC, so didn't mean it in a hurtful way.

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Originally Posted by xkissyx

i'm the same i've lived by the saying " everything happens for a reason" for as long as i can rem i am also still working out what that reason is .... i got thinking that maybe i was supposed to go through all this to realise how precious a gift of a child is before i would have just taken it for granted xx

I think you're right

I remain hopeful that i'm quite young and have a few years to get pregnant yet and i'm sure that all of this will help me appreciate the life that I'll create even more. Plus, it gives me chance to accomplish other things in life and to ensure that i'm truly prepared emotionally, physically and financially. (still doesn't make it easy! Lol)

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kit603 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Nottinghamshire Posts: 3,300	I've always believed that everything happens for a reason, even if we're not sure what that reason is quite yet. However, that philosophy is making me more and more stressed out these days! GRR.

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pinkclaire Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Wiltshire Posts: 7,619	Hey Kissy I havent read the other posts but hope you dont mind me invading on your post. I got pregnant and absolutely dreaded telling a couple of my friends who are TTC at the moment. I felt like a complete biatch its unbelievable. I think you should be honest, I would want my friends to tell me that it bothered them so I could be more sensitive (I am trying) and how it makes them feel. I would completely understand and would be glad they could be open with me so there wasnt that barrier there which I feel like there is at the moment! Its like getting it all in the open helps I think? Anyway thats my personal opinion not sure if it helps good luck everyone with you TTCs xx

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