Jealousy, anger when there should be happiness - Page 3

xkissyx · Sep 7th, 2009, 13:49 PM

i agree thats its human nature to feel this way it's so much away from how i usually am. i feel so guilty when i have the jealousy and anger. i suppose its just the way of the world that those that want don't get unless u work really hard at it and those that don't want just get given.... maybe i should not want n i might get sooner hehe

this journey to life has taught me well that life is truely precious and a gift given to cherish i don't think there's many "accidental" mothers think that.......

Maritini · Sep 7th, 2009, 13:56 PM

I hear ya friends and coworkers are getting preg left and right. we have been TTC for four months now! and nothing i got a BFN today.... im so discouraged

kit603 · Sep 7th, 2009, 16:34 PM

I'm a POAS addict even though its pretty impossible to get pregnant atm because it looks like i've not ovulated in about 12 months

xkissyx · Sep 8th, 2009, 08:05 AM

i'm sorry to hear that kit603 hope u ovulate soon so u can get on your way to a BFP xxxx FX'd for everyone

kit603 · Sep 8th, 2009, 13:23 PM

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Originally Posted by xkissyx

i'm sorry to hear that kit603 hope u ovulate soon so u can get on your way to a BFP xxxx FX'd for everyone

Thanks Krissy. I'm trying to convince myself that everything happens for a reason and look at the benefits: More time to save up so I can buy lots of cute baby clothes and spoil my LO rotten! LOL!

Jaxvipe · Sep 8th, 2009, 16:04 PM

I completely understand how you all feel. I had a M/C at the end of May, about a month later the receptionist(with the IQ level of a 10 year old) at my job told me she was pregnant by her bf of 4 months... I was so devastated. Because my whole reasoning for why i M/C was because i wasn't ready for a baby, but that completely went out the window when she became preg. It's just so hard coming to work every day and having to see it all day long and then having to hear her talk about the baby likes it going to be a pet...

Unfortunately, i have been pretty bitter about it and just kind of don't talk to her anymore.

kit603 · Sep 8th, 2009, 16:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaxvipe

I completely understand how you all feel. I had a M/C at the end of May, about a month later the receptionist(with the IQ level of a 10 year old) at my job told me she was pregnant by her bf of 4 months... I was so devastated. Because my whole reasoning for why i M/C was because i wasn't ready for a baby, but that completely went out the window when she became preg. It's just so hard coming to work every day and having to see it all day long and then having to hear her talk about the baby likes it going to be a pet...

Unfortunately, i have been pretty bitter about it and just kind of don't talk to her anymore.

Awww hun, we've all been there so just try not to feel bad about it *cuddles*

Jaxvipe · Sep 8th, 2009, 16:21 PM

Its really hard but i get joy in the fact that i will be pg when she is not so then she will be jealous of me =) ( i know im so mean)

kit603 · Sep 8th, 2009, 16:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Jaxvipe

Its really hard but i get joy in the fact that i will be pg when she is not so then she will be jealous of me =) ( i know im so mean)

Haha! We're so alike

shambaby · Sep 8th, 2009, 18:15 PM

i think it's perfectly normal to feel angry and jealous - because IT'S NOT FAIR!

Sep 7th, 2009, 13:49 PM	#21
xkissyx Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: manchester Posts: 854	i agree thats its human nature to feel this way it's so much away from how i usually am. i feel so guilty when i have the jealousy and anger. i suppose its just the way of the world that those that want don't get unless u work really hard at it and those that don't want just get given.... maybe i should not want n i might get sooner hehe this journey to life has taught me well that life is truely precious and a gift given to cherish i don't think there's many "accidental" mothers think that.......

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Sep 7th, 2009, 13:56 PM	#22
Maritini Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 17	I hear ya friends and coworkers are getting preg left and right. we have been TTC for four months now! and nothing i got a BFN today.... im so discouraged

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Sep 7th, 2009, 16:34 PM	#23
kit603 Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Nottinghamshire Posts: 3,300	I'm a POAS addict even though its pretty impossible to get pregnant atm because it looks like i've not ovulated in about 12 months

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Sep 8th, 2009, 08:05 AM	#24
xkissyx Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: manchester Posts: 854	i'm sorry to hear that kit603 hope u ovulate soon so u can get on your way to a BFP xxxx FX'd for everyone

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Sep 8th, 2009, 16:04 PM	#26
Jaxvipe Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 768	I completely understand how you all feel. I had a M/C at the end of May, about a month later the receptionist(with the IQ level of a 10 year old) at my job told me she was pregnant by her bf of 4 months... I was so devastated. Because my whole reasoning for why i M/C was because i wasn't ready for a baby, but that completely went out the window when she became preg. It's just so hard coming to work every day and having to see it all day long and then having to hear her talk about the baby likes it going to be a pet... Unfortunately, i have been pretty bitter about it and just kind of don't talk to her anymore.

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Sep 8th, 2009, 16:21 PM	#28
Jaxvipe Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 768	Its really hard but i get joy in the fact that i will be pg when she is not so then she will be jealous of me =) ( i know im so mean)

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Sep 8th, 2009, 18:15 PM	#30
shambaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: UK Posts: 2,854	i think it's perfectly normal to feel angry and jealous - because IT'S NOT FAIR!

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