I completely agree! If only we had all the answers 11 years ago eh? hind sight.....what a wonderful thing!
Actually after kids DH should have a vasectomy let them do their bit!! ahh that sounds a bit cruel doesn't it! I know my cousin made her DH hubby have one for the exact reason! she said it was the least he could do
fingers crossed for us both then I never thought I would hear myself say I wish AF would come!!