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HAYS · Jan 21st, 2008, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Carolina

i was actually gona start a thread like this! I was wondering if any of you guys are finding it a strain on your relationship? This is my 6th cycle now and i just feel like it is never going to happen. My OH wasnt 100% about ttc but the main reason we started trying is because i have intense pain with periods which are filled with clots i get IBS and naseua and headaches with it and it was like this when i was on bcp aswell!

My GP thought i might have endo which it turns out i do (which i found out this week). My gynae told me i will get pregnant but i am really dubious about that now. Ive read info on the net saying people with endo of the lining (which is what i have are infertile)!! Also read it usually takes someone with it 5 times as long to get pregnant!

Basically id rather ttc now and have a kid rather than never have one at all and as soon as i started ttc i really really wanted one but my OH doesnt understand it! I has a bit of a breakdown last night. And things are a bit tense. I think we arent going to try this month to have a breather.

OH says all i talk about is babies and ttc and its freaking him out a bit and i feel bad about ttc when hes not 100%

dont know what to do!

i no how u feel hun,it has put alittle strain on mine, only in the sense that my hubby says i think about it too much,only want to bd when im ovulating blah blah and it doesnt help when he constantly tells me to stop worrying about it!
sorry to hear that you have endo,is there no one you can go and talk to that will give you some more info?
xx

loopylew · Jan 21st, 2008, 10:39 AM

my hubby's ok, he wants a baby as much as i do. He says every now and then that he feels pressured but im sure most blokes do in this situation. I think its difficult as he already has a child from his previous relationship so if there is anything "wrong" i think it'll somehting to do with me rather than him i.e low sperm count etc. We try to BD when we wanna but more during ov, we've been trying to BD every other day anyway but it is difficult with work patterns etc which is where i think we're going wrong

polo_princess · Jan 21st, 2008, 10:43 AM

Luckily i havent felt too miserable, only in the 2ww and when

shows up.

I try not to let myself get too hung up on it, actually i do lol but i try not to go on about it very often to OH because i dont want to feel like im going on at him. I keep it to myself and let it all out with you ladies on here.

jo27 · Jan 21st, 2008, 11:14 AM

I have good and bad days generally i just try and get on with it, i suppose the positive thing for me is that i have conceived twice so know i can at least get pregnant and hopefully next time it will be a sticky bean!

Carolina · Jan 21st, 2008, 16:12 PM

thanks hays! yeah i think i should try and keep it to myself a bit becasue i know im doing my OH head in lol! None of my frinds are tcc or want to have kids for years so i cant talk to nay of them...theyd think we were mad ttc but im 25 dont think thats too young lol!

My gynae says i will get pregnant with the endo but with the amount of pain and bleeding i have i dont know how he can be so confident! I didnt get to sleep until 6am this morning because i was in so much pain!

I think it gets to you after a couple of months i took it a lot worse when af showed this time...i think your on your 6th cycle aswell hays? I think loopylew is about the same aswell.

Maybe it gets worse when you hit this point waiting!

I hope we all get our bfps really soon!

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