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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:21 PM
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| I have my moments but only been trying for a coupla months so not too bad. It's more a feeling of intense impatience and irritation! Trying my best to chill out but just can't. I feel like if only I could get my BFP, then I can get on with the rest of my life but I know the next stage will be worrying about the bean staying put!
I do find having my course helps (am doing a creative writing course in my spare time) so might be worth taking up a hobby or something? The Open University does some good short courses or local college. And really trying to get my eating and exercise on track to make myself as healthy as poss. Kinda distracts me - well, for a coupla weeks it does then the big 2WW begins and I'm on a kinfe edge! |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:25 PM
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#12 | | Been trying for 14months BnB Addict
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I'm Currently Feeling: | didnt help tonight,when i spoke to one of my mates on the phone,and told her about us ttc,and she like everyone person said the famous 'oh hayley you should try and relax,dont stress about it'
grrrr i tell ya! |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:25 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | it is really hard not to get miserable, i find im worse when imright back at the beginning and have about 14days till ov etc. |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:26 PM
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#14 | | Been trying for 14months BnB Addict
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I'm Currently Feeling: | yep ditto hun!! |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:28 PM
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#15 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling: | im surrounded by people who are pregnant who all tell me to relax, 2 best friends, 3 work colleagues and my hairdresser, does you head in!! esp when they claim to have fallen pg without "trying". i'm not entirely sure that they are all being truthful really |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:29 PM
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#16 | | Been trying for 14months BnB Addict
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I'm Currently Feeling: | yeh totally know what u mean, im surrounded by pg women too and it does my nutt in,and everyone says the same thing, relax,chill,it will happen!
sod off!!!! lol
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:34 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | i go up and down feeling miserable when im round them, im real happy for them but then i just wanna be pg aswell. I think its worse cos we've been so open with our ttc plans that everyone who i know knows so they ask all the time etc |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:36 PM
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#18 | | Been trying for 14months BnB Addict
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I'm Currently Feeling: | yep ditto,ive told pretty much everyone,because i get so excited and cant keep my mouth shut
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:40 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Get on MSN mate x |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 21:40 PM
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#20 | | TTC since 1999 Chat Happy BnB Member
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Oh, I am with you guys. I am currently surrounded by pregnant women too. (Of course none of them say that they were actually trying. Everyone tells me to relax too and it take everything in my not to knock them right out.
Here is wishing all of us luck to try not to hurt those people and try our best not to get down even when things are hard!  (Thats what this place is for, right?)
Sarah |
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