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Jan 20th, 2008, 14:00 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | 9 days late, 2 BFNs - Now what? :( I can't believe that AF still isn't here! It has been as late as 39 days before though, so I could in fact only be three days late. But still, I'm late and I've had two BFNs (one yesterday). Do you think it's possible to *think* yourself out of getting AF?! I don't think I've ever missed a period before. And although I'm frustrated, I don't feel like I'm really stressed enough to make it late. I'm so confused though. I'm not sure what to do now.
I really don't feel like I have any signs either. My boobs are sore but that's normal (and they're not as bad as normal), I've had days of extreme hunger but it's not as bad anymore and could just be PMT. I'm not cramping. I don't feel sick. I never thought I'd want to feel sick like I do now!!
I've been using Tesco tests - should I try a more expensive brand? I can't really afford to keep testing though.
If I'm not pregnant, I just wish AF would come so that I can't at least be nearer to ovulating again!  | | | | Status: Offline
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Jan 20th, 2008, 14:02 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | why dont you get a blood test? |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 14:06 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | im in the same boat as you,af is late by 6 days,ive had 2 negative tests,last one on thursday.i havent tested again,because of not wanting to see anymore bfn's.i use the internet cheapy tests,my friend used one of my tsts and got a bfp,so cheapy tests do work.like you,i wish af would just come if its comming  good luck,hope you get a bfp soon |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 14:06 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | it could b coz ur stressing over it too much, try not 2 worry bout it (easier said than done i know!) but stress can delay ur period xxx |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 17:34 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I heard stress can only delay ovulation which can delay your period since your LP is usually the same length each month. Were you stressed a couple weeks ago?  |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 17:48 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I know how you ladies are feeling!!! My last cycle I was 16 days late!! And didn't really have AF symptoms besides mild cramping and sore boobs. Then 3 days they progressively got stronger and AF came! I did like 4 tests between that whole time waiting it out....all negative!!! Doesn't mean you are out! Try and test again in a few days if AF isn't here and you have more preg/AF symptoms perhaps. I have irregular cycles, so this is something to consider as well.
Justme00 is right....stress can delay Oing...so perhaps you just O'd late and the cycle is just longer this time.  let us know what happens ~ might want to try a diff hpt brand. |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 19:26 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | If AF still hasnt shown two weeks after it was meant to be due then i would probably go see a doctor. |
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Jan 20th, 2008, 22:32 PM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Thanks everyone. I'm not sure if I was stressed around ovulation... although I thought I was due to ovulate around Christmas and New Year so I could well have been stressed! LOL!
I'm not sure I would be able to get a blood test at this 'early' stage, but yeah, two weeks late would probably be a good time to go to the doctors. I think what I'll do is buy a Clear Blue test this week and then wait as long as I can before testing. Thanks for your help. I just have to wait it out... it sucks!  | | | | Status: Offline
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Jan 20th, 2008, 22:39 PM
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Jan 21st, 2008, 03:09 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Good luck when you test | | | | Status: Offline
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