Oh Sweetheart.

You're baby is coming - I'm sure.

I got pregnant the first month we tried, but lost the baby. TBH not only is TTC hard, heartbreaking but I used to take it for granted that pregnancy meant having a baby, - it's not as simple as that

I know they like drill it in you when you are young that if you have sex you will get preg so BEWARE!! haha, and now you aren't using any protection and it is like....hmmmmm so why am I not preg now!!!! DUH!! haha. I know it is aggravating!!! Keep positive, stay healthy, and educate yourself about ttc and it will happen for all!!!

I did.. Oh my, it eats up time..

I know what you gals mean. I went to a Catholic school, so it was always drilled into my head "No sex before marriage (whoops) and as soon as you get married you will be able to have lots and lots of babies" So I always figured that when my DH and I were ready, it would happen. Once I started to understand about PCOS and other forms of infertility, and knew that my body wasn't "quite right" I started to get concerned.

The first time I had unprotected sex with DH I was so paranoid that I was pregnant. Now sometimes I wonder why I was ever even on b/c!

I look at everyone in my family that got pregnant accidently at age 16 and you think....well it has to be easy for some people!? My mom got pregnant the first time she ever had sex.

I did too, I thought in one month I'll be pregnant, and here I am 2 months gone (I know it's not a lot of time), and I'm not pregnant, and I'm so sad because AF came today, so that means "I hope I have better luck next month"

me and DH definately thought it would be easier so we didn't start trying till after our wedding, when we've actually wanted to try for about the past 18 months

i had a feeling it wouldt happen instantly for me because ive always had a couple of strange health problems and because my af is soo heavy and painful i had a feeling it wouldnt be easy. For years when im in pain with af ive though to myself well maybe ove got really strong hormones so ill have a really healthy baby and i just have to get through this. Found out yesterday my gynae thinks ive got endometriosis but he thinks i will get pregnant so we shall see I guess im more sceptical than most!

I'm the same as you, Faith-May. Only been trying for a coupla months. Deep down, I thought it would happen quickly cos ALL of my family fall so quickly, like first time they try. But then they were all in their 20s when trying whereas I'm 30. But part of me thought it'd happen quite quickly.