JK1978

Ok, so last night hubby and I went bowling. We were having a great time until the lane next to us filled with some early 20 something loud mouth people. Two of the young ladies had child with them. One had what appeared to be an 18 month old, and the other had an 18 month old and a newborn (keep in mind this was late like 10 pm - 1 am)

Anyways, the infant was sleeping but the 2 toddlers were all over the place while the parents bowled. There was at least two occasions where the one little girl made it at least 6 alley's down before the ding bat mother even noticed. I was trying my best to ignore them but It was really infuriating me.

Later on the infant woke and her mother said "Oh! You are awake, mommy hasnt seen you all day, mommy missed you!" She prepared a bottle to feed her and then one of the friends told her it was her turn. She put the baby back in the car seat and as it wailed for her, she bowled!!! I was like UNBELIEVABLE! What is the matter with them???

I got really weepy, and actually cried in the bowling alley. My hubby was calming me, being very nice (trying not to look at me like im a wackado) and supportive, but told me its not like me at all to acre what other people around me are doing. Is my becoming obsessed with conceiving making me more observant of parents around me, or am I just lame?

Hubby said " man I bet you are pregnant! I haven't seen you this hormonal and weepy since the m/c.

loopylew

oh i hope so hun xx

anita665

It could be a symptom of pregnancy that you're getting so emotional. Do you normally get like that when coming up to AF though?

I was always really terrible coming up to AF. Crying one min, filled with terrible deadly rage the next. Luckily pregnancy has actually calmed me down and now I just take myself off and have a little cry now and then.

Saying that though kids and mothers who don't control them have always got me very stressed. I'm not really a kids sort of person, except for my own and friends and families so a noisy kid in a shop is enough to make me very angry.

cupcake

gosh i think i would have cried if id seen that display

JK1978

See, I never am emotional around AF time... bitchy YES ... lol but that was what was weird... I wasn't angry at the moms, I was sad for them. And sad for myself that someone with no obvious parenting skills can conceive but I am having such a time with it...

Suz

I hope it is a PG Sympton hun.

I know tho that i get emotionall some times around kids because I really want one of my own.

Hope you get your

JK1978

Me too, thanks I know, its so unfair when people who want kids so badly have such a time of it, and it's even harder when you see people who seem to not even care

~*Tel*~

I know what you mean. after we found out that we would need ICIS to conceive I would cry just about everytime i saw a newborn or a kid running around and their parents not watching them. it could be quite embarrassing (expecially in the supermarket.) Now it just makes me feel angry.

diva4180

aww hun i hope it's a sign for you.....it doesn't seem fair does it? that people who who don't want or aren't mature enough to take care of a child (that's a blessing and miracle in itself) get pg like that and then there's the rest of us , you're right that's very sad.