Toni

Thanks so much girls! Its not until you hear from everyone else you realise that really there are more people in the same boat than you think .. the people you are always hearing about who "come off the pill and fall pregnant straight away" are actually a lot rarer than you would actually think ... Avistar I like your style and very much agree that ttc should be more of a blessing than a chore I like that! Think my husband would agree with you there too because realistically the more uptight we get about the whole thing the harder its going to be so I think that I might invest in the old digital CB fertility monitor too. I sound like you Avistar beacause we've been officially trying for about 4/5 months and my predictions for ovulating have been so wrong (never was very good at maths!) ... so you've been 16 days late too? Its more common than you would think isn't it, god i was going crazy! not so much because I wanted to be pregnant but just scared myself a bit reading some scary stories about periods never returning and just wanted them to be normal again.Hopefully all those bloody hormones will be leaving me soon and then I'll just have to contend with my natural ones which are pretty crazy too at the best of times so bring on plenty emotional rollercoaster rides for me haaha! Again thank you so much Avistar, lady milly, Hayley, Miel, Hays adn poppy for taking the time to qwrite to me I relaly apprecaite it. Chat to you all soon its time to get pencilling in all my baby dancing days haaha xxxxx

avistar

I would recommend the CBFM, even though I just started to use mine and haven't used the sticks yet, but everyone else who has one really seems to enjoy it. TTC can take out all the romance, and that is what I don't like about it, I try not to tell my DH about when I think I might be Oing...so he doesn't think that is my only intention. It is usually half and half to be honest, but I truly love my DH and we are intimate anyway besides the whole ttc. Some can also feel too much pressure and it makes it less enjoyable. Best wishes for this new cycle!!! I am really anxious if/when the CBFM picks up on my fertility and Oing...I think I O really late...only time will tell. That is the trouble with irregular periods. I am sure your body will regulate itself soon, so try not to worry. My mom always had irregular periods, so it might just be inherited.