hi I'm new here too. the same thing happened to me in December. I was really late. I was about a week and a half late and really thought I pregnant. did loads of hpt (it felt like about a million!!) but af came with a bang. I couldn't believe it. I am ttc since June last year and I was on bcp for 7 years. That was the first month that af had been irregular since coming off bcp. I think af was due to arrive yesterday but nothing yet. I can't be sure now when because of last month. I'm afraid to think that I could be pregnant after being so disappointed. I know exactly what you mean when you say you wish af would either come or not. Its worse not knowing especially with all the bfn. Good luck and its nice to know that someone else is in the same boat. everyone is so nice here

Its so confusing isn't it lady milly? I keep thinking my af will be here soon too, as like you were, I'm nearly 2 weeks late now ... I think I've even got to the stage now I'm boring myself thinking about it let alone jibbering away to my husband every day about it! I have a feeling tho that this isn't the month for me and my cycle has just got all mixed up because of pill .... I know what you mean tho about not knowing how long your cycle now is - thats what annoys me the most because I had it in my mind my cycle was 31 days and now god knows what it must be ... Well at least I know that this is not uncommon and like yourself there are probably loads of people in the same boat as us. Sure u never know what can happen - this might even be the month for you and you dont even know it! I'll let you know how I get on next week with the Doc and I'll be thinking of you so let me know how you go this month good luck xx

hopefully its both our months toni. at least we know that we not the only ones going through this. I'll let you know if af comes or not. good luck xx