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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:31 PM   #1
eeyore83
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Some people should NOT be doctors


So, I got my 3 of them actually. Didn't believe the first 2 sticks, ran out and got a digi. Called the dr's, made appt to get the blood test. My dr is on vacation, and her replacement needs to be shot.

Dr: Any morning sickness?
Me: no.
Dr: tender breasts?
me: no
Dr: *rolls eyes* what makes you think you're pregnant.
Me: uh, the three positive pregnancy tests
Dr: well, fine, go get the blood work. Whatever, those tests are sensitive, seems to me you might just show there, nature takes its course, you lose it, whatever.

WHATEVER!?!!?!?!?

So now I've gone from absolute elation to lying on my couch bawling my eyes out not wanting to tell a soul (DH and I were planning on dinner with our parents to tell them, it's their first grandkid). I have never EVER been so upset.


 
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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:36 PM   #2
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bbbbbbbbbeeeeatch

Shouldnt a doctor know you don't get morning sickness that early
Shouldnt a doctor be more sensitive!!!

Cow bag. Honey, go see another doctor, complain about that one and run round the room in elation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


 
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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:38 PM   #3
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OMG!!!!!!!!!! That made me feel very angry reading that. You poor thing

Cant believe that Dr was such a cow (would obviously use a much worser word than that but havent ) Try & enjoy the fact you are going to be parents....its not everyday that you get a & dont let that muppet bring you down.

Wishing you luck & a sticky bean

Dee
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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:38 PM   #4
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wow that's awful. I'd report her. I never got any morning sickness! lots of people don't.
I never had any bloodwork either. The stick is right. You are pregnant, be happy. Many congratulations.


 
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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:39 PM   #5
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bbbbbbbbbeeeeatch

Shouldnt a doctor know you don't get morning sickness that early
Shouldnt a doctor be more sensitive!!!

Cow bag. Honey, go see another doctor, complain about that one and run round the room in elation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was gonna say the same thing. You can tell we are both from yorkshire.

Its suppose to be the best time of your life and they tarnish you with the same brush as every other patient.

I agree see another doctor love. Hope you feel better. Just remember you have your bean now and now one can take that away. Not even that cow bag.


 
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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:40 PM   #6
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I am so sorry you had to deal with such an awful dr. I had my fair share of really bad drs and nurses right after my bfp and during my first month of pregnancy. They can be very insensitive and will never be excited about things like you and your family/friends are and will be. Realize that your family and friends will probably be over the moon and as hard as it is - you need to try to forget what this dr said.

(I was told after about 10 bfp's that "you arent pregnant" with an hcg blood level of 86. I was told "IF you are still pregnant on thursday" that bla bla bla. A dr told me at 6+5 that it wasnt a viable pregnancy and I probably had a blighted ovum (based on no information except my hcg # on dpo12.) My hormones were all fine.. no bleeding, etc. My baby is still there..... despite horrible drs that have nothing better to do than be negative and stupid!

Not everyone gets morning sickness - mine didnt start til week 7. My bb's didnt hurt til 2 weeks after my bfp!

PS>>>> if you find a good dr - dont let them go!!!

Congrats on bfp - you are pregnant!!!


 
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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:40 PM   #7
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bbbbbbbbbeeeeatch

Shouldnt a doctor know you don't get morning sickness that early
Shouldnt a doctor be more sensitive!!!

Cow bag. Honey, go see another doctor, complain about that one and run round the room in elation!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was gonna say the same thing. You can tell we are both from yorkshire.

Its suppose to be the best time of your life and they tarnish you with the same brush as every other patient.

I agree see another doctor love. Hope you feel better. Just remember you have your bean now and now one can take that away. Not even that cow bag.
LOL!!!

But honey, I would def complain .

Are you running round dancing yet?
That's an order!!!!


 
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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:42 PM   #8
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one word for her... BITCH! when you get your blood work through it in her bloody face hun! xx


 
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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:42 PM   #9
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That made me very angry reading that too I'd report her - what an awful thing to say

I've never had morning sickness or tender breasts early on - do you think she even has any qualifications?!!

And congratulations! x x


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Old Jul 20th, 2009, 15:51 PM   #10
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OMG!! Is she still alive??

Wanted to add... Dont worry hun! The proof is in the tests u did and there is no need to listen to the stupid witch! She is probably jealous... Women are crazy like that.

Ohh... But if it was me.. She would have had an ear full, maybe a black eye.. Is she that stupid to mess with a hormonal, pregnant woman?


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