I have irregular cycles

Loopylew has the right idea. I am irregular, anything from 29 - 35 days. Since last August I have started writing down how I feel, symptoms of af if any, date I start spotting, date I am in full flow, etc (although I ahve been writing down the date I come on and off for the last 1 1/2). It does help.

What you can then do is take your earliest date you could possibly start and bd the day before, have a day off and bd, etc etc. Have fun at the same time, although with work, life and the stress off ttc, it could be a pain.

I have to say it's so nice to hear other women struggling like me, you now know you're not the only one in the world with a pain in the bum cycle!!! Good luck to you and I wish you all the best.

how long have you been TTC ?

Thanks for the reply,it is nice to no your not the only one struggling,but it would be even nicer if we could all be regular as clockwork.
i have to say i do stress alot about ttc,i dont think it helps,but sometimes you cant help it hope a BFP comes your way soon

we started TTC in March 2005, conceived twice, and had quite a while where I had no AF at all as well

hi im having the same problem, i came of the bcp in sept 07 after getting married. i have had a 45 day and a 56 days cycle since.
i am charting my temp each day and did see slight change but havent used opk yet, let me know how u get on.

hey hun ill join ur club the gorls on her told me to take anga catus wat everythat is supppose to help reggukar im will try it after my evening primose runs out

does 1 day count as irregular

Do you mean you was on one day and off the next or one day between two AF's?? sorry i've had a long day at work..minds not working properly

nah its ok i wasnt very clear.

last months cycle was 28 days this month was 27