sandy28

I'm very sad , why not me ... i've been trying for 4 months and nothing and my friend just called and said she is pg after trying for only one month . i want to be happy for her, but i cant i'm sad

have you ever felt this way...

NEED A HUG...

avistar

I know how you feel! I know SO many people that are preg: my sister, friends wife and sister, DH cousin, old friend from high school. You are not alone in your feelings. Try to move on and do what you need to do...for most couples it doesn't happen that easily. Here is lots of

sandy28

thank you, you make me feel a little better... It's just very hard, i really dont have any good friend i'm able to talk to. And i dont want to tell my husband becuase i dont want him to start feeling the way i feel. It's just very hard to be happy and hearing her tell me to hurry that way we can both be pg.

FJL

What you're feeling is normal hun

Try as I might, I just cannot be happy for anyone (besides you guys on the forum ) who gets pregnant or has a newborn. Especially when they fall pregnant so easily and heres us who've been trying for 15 months!

Just allow yourself to feel however you want to, its completely normal.

avistar

I know exactly how that is!!! As it just happened to me the other day! I forgot to add that another one of my friends is preg with her 2nd one and she only tried one month and fell preg. It is hard to keep track of them all!!! ARGH haha. All you can do is just enjoy your time with your DH and planning for your family. It will happen in time, and you just have to focus on the now and the future. You can't always look to what other people are doing. MY DH always tells me how he loves our lives together...and just today he told me he didn't want a baby...though he does...Keep positive, even though I know it is so hard!!! This forum is so great to get out those preg-blues! Just remember that when you become preg, it will be your time to shine!!!

NeyNey

It's very hard for me to be happy when I see someone with a newborn...I only just wish it was me. But, everyone who is trying is always happy...no matter how long they've been trying, so I always try to remember how I will feel when it happens to me, and I share their joy...

sandy28

i'm crying but in a good way.. i really needed to get this all out.. thank you for listening

Tricks26

Hi Hi,

Just a quick note to say, you are not alone, me and OH have been trying for 4 years we have had 3 M/C and 1 ectopic, and try as I mite I still do not have a baby of my own and I work with children and everyone around me is Prg!! 3 friends, cousin, and everywhere I look there is someone glowing, I put on my happy face for them and then go home and sob

I just live with the knowledge that it will happen for me soon, and in the mean time I have you lot on here to keep me sain!!! xx

HAYS

aw hun i feel like that too,and i guess we all do on here,but we have to get on with it, and atleast we are all in it together on here, we can moan and sulk amongst each other.

big hugs for ya
xx

jo27

Yer totally normal to feel like that, to get pregnant in the first month of trying is very very lucky and 4 months is not that long apparently the stats say 90% of couples will conceive within 12 months of trying so good luck x