EllaCruz

Mine is very chilled out too. Sometimes I get paranoid that he does not even want a baby, that he is doing this All for Me.

Then he points out a cute kid on TV and says "Ours will be cuter than that."

NeyNey

Welcome to BnB
I think the first thing you need to do, as everyone has said is start to watch and monitor your cycle. Start checking what your CM (Cervic Mucus) is looking like daily - it can be a good indication.

Best of luck!!!!

avistar

My DH hates that I am on this site but he wants a baby too. If you think there is a problem then I would sit and talk to him about it. MY DH doesn't like having to plan conception but after trying for awhile you kinda need to be aware of Oing and such...We have been ttc officially for 4 months, unofficially for almost a year. Best of luck to you!!

keelykat

Hi again, well there isnt a problem with my OH wanting a baby-i do tend to worry a lot in general so the problem is probably just in my head!

We brought something similar to pregnacare today, but its a different brand. My OH did get involved which i was pleased about, and when i told him about being more likely to get pregnant at a certain point in my cycle he seemed to listen and take it in.

Ellacruz-he often picks up baby stuff now and i can tell hes getting excited about idea of being a dad...

I feel like weve come a long way to get where we are, ie he does think and re think things before finally deciding to do something especially as big as this. This certainly isnt something weve suddenly decided to do over night. Theres been long chats about what we want, and when, and how it will affect us. And when he told me-yes im ready too, i could have cried (sad i know, but ive been broody for ages!).

What do i need to look out for with my CM?

keely.

dakini

Just wanted to say Hi!

And to let you know that just because it's day 18 or your cycle you are not out for o'ing. I am currently on CD19 and no O in sight....but the past 2 months I O'ed CD17 and CD18. (The month before I wasn't doing anything so I don't know.)

My DH has read more that I thought...he knows, without talking with me about it, that there's only a small window every month and we have to time things right...every so often he kinda goes, do we really want this? But that's been less frequent lately. I think he just doesn't quite get it as he's a guy...he hasn't commented on my being on this site, but I don't think he really knows either......may have blocked out those mentions...

miel

hello! welcome to the site!
i wish you the best of luck on your ttc journey!
like everyone had said when you know your cycle length you will pretty much know when your ovulation will start . i am a cycle of 26 th days myself and i usually "bd" for a week every other days when ovulation start.
happy new year !

wishes

I'm intrigued by this too? What should we be looking for??