Trying To Conceive

suzan · Dec 30th, 2007, 02:16 AM

And I am only 25!!!

First of, my little baby cousin is pregnant. When I knew she was preggo I cried like hell. She was only 16 and a month later turned 17 (Yep, a Jamie Spears here only a married one!). Yep, she is very very very young and married. In our culture it is ok to marry that young. She is now 4 months pregnant with a girl.

And now, what mostly drove me crazy is my other cousin. She is 19 and wants to get pregnant. She has been married for 6 months and now they wana TTC while going to a second honeymoon.

AAAAAAAAAAA I will die if she gets pregnant before me. I will be the old leftover with no bump, no BFP, NADA

!!!! in the family

Why me.!!!!!!!!! Ok, I am happy for them, but not happy for me

Shouldn't they wait until the old one gets pregnant first?? Like a friend of mine said before, They should follow the rules

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

For those who dont know what are the rules like a friend of mine said:

1- Date
2- Marry
3- Enjoy your married life
4- When u r ready have babies

They jumped some rules!! they shouldn't have to!!

PS: For those young moms, dont take it personal. This is about my personal life, I am Venting so please let me do that!!!!!!

avistar · Dec 30th, 2007, 02:25 AM

I so know how you feel! My BIL had a baby right away, the first month they tried, and they aren't married...and doubt they ever will be. 25 is still young! Enjoy being with you DH and being able to do things you can't without children. Because once you have them, your life is all about them, and you can't really do all the things you used to when their was just the two of you. I don't regret not having children young! MAN! We have our own cars, house, go on trips when we want...are able to save up money...it is really hard to do that when your 17 with babies. Well, I guess unless you have a trust fund or something....Anyway I am only 24 and ttc but have greatly enjoyed my time with my DH alone and all the hard things we have been able to accomplish together. I agree with your friend. It is nice to be prepared to have children and know that you can support them the way you would like.

I know it is hard when everyone in the family is preg and having babies!! I know the feeling too well! I just found out TODAY that my DH cousin is preg...when will the list stop??

suzan · Dec 30th, 2007, 02:31 AM

The list will stop when we find ourselves pregnant. We will stop caring about who is preg and who is not!

Well.. until then, take a deep breath!!!!!!!!!!!!

Mynxie · Dec 30th, 2007, 02:33 AM

life was never meant to be fair I guess....

suzan · Dec 30th, 2007, 02:34 AM

Yes true!! but is it meant to be miserable for some? I feel that way

Mynxie · Dec 30th, 2007, 02:34 AM

oh i certainly think it's supposed to try us sweetheart xxxxxxx

avistar · Dec 30th, 2007, 02:38 AM

just think suzan when you get that long awaited BFP!!! How more special it will be for you!! Life is full of lessons and tests....You'll make the list!!! Don't lose hope!