I was wondering today on how long I have to say that we have been trying for a baby.

We started on January 2007 and got pregnant and then miscarried in July. Then got pregnant after two months and miscarried too.

We have been trying for how long? Almost a year?? Or I shouldnt think that way??

Would I be considered as a member of the TTC for One or More Years ?

We concieved in Feb 2006 & it was ectopic .... number of chemicals to follow! It felt like a life time. We concieved in March 2007 Found out towards the end of March or start of April ... so just over a year.

Stay strong & positive hun my OH said theres just some heartache inbetween for some (us) and as unfair and sad that it was knowing I was able to concieve was good & it would happen ... I won't say it to you because I wanted to punch him one for it but something I thought I'd mention

Technically its been a year hun

Well I would say you've been trying for a year, as you're still trying for that little miracle.

We've been trying for just over two years (sept 2005) - even with one m/c - I still measure from the month we choose to TTC - as I've yet to hold a little one on my arms.....

Yes i've been trying since Jan 07, had two MC's so would still say i've been trying for nearly a year the only glimmer of hope is that you know you can conceive x

However, on the other hand, the months you weren't 'trying' because you were either pregnant or were giving yourself a break to recover could not be classed as ttc. So, I would probably just count the months you were actively ttc.

Thanks everyone!!


Poppyy! humm.. nice way of calculating it! I like it!