x-amy-x

And also... i kinda wish you hadn't said

because it's something i've always thought but ignored... but to have someone else say so to

Zarababy1

Iv said it many many times before! and unfortunatly its true

Zarababy1

and tell meeee!!! are u gunna start it soooon!?

x-amy-x

Yep...

taking my folic acid and stuff :-)

Evie's post mortem results wouldn't stop us from trying again. Plus, i very much doubt there was anything wrong with my gorgeous girl. Just my stupid eroded cervix that couldn't hold my baby xx

BabyBubbles

amy i feel exactly the same. I lost my baby in march then bled for 11 weeks. Stopped bleeding on 10th June and got straight back down to it. I'm confused though as I've had three lots of the stretchy mucus (tmi) so dont know when and if ive ovd. Now im waiting for either an af or bfp lol. Really dont know where i am with things. At the moment im either 14, 8 or 2dpo lol if at all. This past week ive been really bloated and had nausea on or off which is exactly how i felt ith pg no1 but tested this morning and got bfn. Didnt get a bfp with pg no 1 till 21dpo!!! Really confused but glad w did start straight away, just knowing im doin something to help get pg again makes the pain of the mc a bit less. Dont know if any of that makes sense!!!!!

Hope u do ov and hope u do get a bfp super quick xxxx

x-amy-x

Hope you get your BFP soon hun, it's an awful wait isn't it!

At the same time though i feel really awful because i haven't even laid my angel to rest yet

BabyBubbles

im scattering beans ashes in cornwall next week and me and oh had a really big discussion about ttc again. I felt like wanting to try again was disrespecting my bean and that i didnt just want any baby i wanted that baby. I have a memorial pendant wit some of the ashes in which i carry with me everywhere i go and so i feel that bean will always be with me whether i try again or not, so dont feel bad, angels dont like to see their mummies crying!!! xxx

Zarababy1

you never told meee tut tut, glad to see ur taking ur folic acid anyway! you'll be knocked up by end of aug-when i go on hol in sept no problem super fertile!

x-amy-x

I wont get any ashes off evie

Hope you dont mind me asking but how come you got ashes? Was it a special crem or something?

xxx

FEDup1981

To asnwer ur Q amy, i think u are more fertile after a mc, and u will prob Ov before ur next AF.

Also, i agree with Zara. To call a loss at 21 weeks a miscarriage seems so wrong to me. A miscarriage to me is in the very early stages, before the baby has properly formed. At 21 weeks, its so wrong. Hope i dont upset u by saying that, but just think that these tiny babies should be recognised, rather than being call a mc.

All the best for TTC again hun xxx Will ur cervix hold for another baby, or is it unlikely to happen again?