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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 10:45 AM  
mummyk
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Angry

Looks like av got to go :-( - soz long story...


Well ladies after a huge argument last night with oh i have kicked him out for good!

He came in last night at about 8ish he had been to the pub and was only sposed to have 1 beer (he cant take his drink at all) anyway he came in with a chinese with loads of different dishes - well he knows full well i dont like anything other than chips and curry sauce so i didnt say any thing just got the chips and curry and sat down to eat them - next thing i know he stomps into the kitchen and throws a full plate of food at the kitchen wall so i went in and then he really started throwing things around and shouting at me

he has done this a few times b4 but i felt a tiny bit scared so i rang my sister - then i hear him on the phone to the POLICE saying i was going psyco (soz cant spell) they told him to go down stairs and grab LO, i went burserk there was no chance he was having him, so we went into the living room and shut the door. next thing i know 3 6ft police men and one woman were on my doorstep i was so embarrased they were taking statements and all sorts.....

the police took him away in the end to his one and only mates, who ended up going out and he slept at the side of our house all night on the floor

i have just been home packed his stuff and kicked him out - dont quite know how am feeling now
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 10:50 AM  
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you poor pet you did the right thing hun,i grew up in a mad house my dad drank every night and wreaked the house he smashed everything for no reason other than anger,its better for you and your child to be shot of him you do not deserve it!!
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 10:53 AM  
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Hunny thats no way to be treated!

You did the best thing all round. You already have a LO seeing this. You dont want to bring another into this sort of environment.

You are better off without him!

I wish you all the luck. xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 11:04 AM  
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Sorry to hear you're having a bad time but well done for being strong and not taking it!
Hope everything works out for you, good luck
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 13:02 PM  
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Oh no, you poor thing. I hope everything works out for the best x
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 13:07 PM  
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you did the right thing hun, at the end of the day dont feel guilty or anything you should never let your LO see what a horrible man he is.
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 13:11 PM  
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awe hun i am sorry i dunno why men feel they have to be so damn silly my oh is the same sometimes but if he was getting aggresive with throwing things arounf then u have done the right thing hun and please dont feel guilty you have done what u feel is best and that is what matters keep ya chin up hun things will get better xxx
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 13:20 PM  
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 13:20 PM  
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Oh mrs, what a stressful time.

If he can't handle his drink he shouldn't drink!

XXXX
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Old Jul 4th, 2009, 15:17 PM  
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