Possible fertility problems, advise needed! - Page 2

missy123 · Jun 30th, 2009, 16:43 PM

my partner also has one and we are trying since november 2007,his sperm sample was "fine"as the doc said but i would be interested to know more details,he is not willing to have the op done so all we can do is pin our hopes that we concieve naturally

KayD85 · Jun 30th, 2009, 16:58 PM

I hope you get your BFP soon! Sending lots of baby dust your way!

xx

missy123 · Jun 30th, 2009, 17:02 PM

thank you hun,frustrating isnt it?? i really felt alone about the whole thing

KayD85 · Jun 30th, 2009, 17:16 PM

It is, although I guess I'm quite lucky because my OH is willing to take these tests and wants to find out whats wrong. A lot of men would maybe in denial about the whole thing. I'm very lucky to be married to a man that is as serious about TTC as I am!

xx

digs · Jul 1st, 2009, 07:13 AM

My husband had the same results first time round, second time round all was fine. Keep your fingers crossed his little men were having a bad day too!

Good Luck

beauty · Jul 1st, 2009, 07:42 AM

Why is it that the tests are not always so good the first time round?? I note alot of ladies oh have had tests and they have come back not so good but then after trying again 3months ltr there fine.. any reasons why?

My oh was lower than average but nothing to worry about doc said but we have been using wellman to get it abit better, even tho the doc expressed he prodcued more than enough of a sample and they only test a certain amount so really if they tested the whole lot he prob be well over the average! x

Bingo · Jul 1st, 2009, 07:44 AM

It annoys me that you're told to try 'naturally' for a year before being offered more tests because if you're ready to try to conceive then it usually means you're ready to become pregnant so it's frustrating to be told to wait. I hope everything works out for the two of you.

ummar · Jul 1st, 2009, 08:08 AM

Hope everything goes well for you all! Our GP told us both to go for routine tests and my OH has been resisting!

chele · Jul 1st, 2009, 08:13 AM

I posted this in LTTC too but am really panicked now.

My husband told me a few weeks ago he has a varicocele
I don't think it's ever been confirmed by the doctor, but how do I go about getting him to go for an SA?

He has tried for children before in the past with his ex wife (2 lots of 6months) and it never happened - could be easily explained, could just have been one of those things, but I now have it in my head that it's not just me who has the problems, but he might too.

He needs to transfer to my dr anyway and I am seeing mine next week so will mention it to her.
I am in the process of getting my bloods done for my own referral but don't think I can wait that long for his SA to be done

Help!!!

KayD- good that your husband is being very pro-active. A lot of men will hide from even going for a test believing everything is ok
I hope you get some good results for the next SA! x

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missy123 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 1,561	my partner also has one and we are trying since november 2007,his sperm sample was "fine"as the doc said but i would be interested to know more details,he is not willing to have the op done so all we can do is pin our hopes that we concieve naturally

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KayD85 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: UK Posts: 16	I hope you get your BFP soon! Sending lots of baby dust your way! xx

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missy123 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 1,561	thank you hun,frustrating isnt it?? i really felt alone about the whole thing

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KayD85 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: UK Posts: 16	It is, although I guess I'm quite lucky because my OH is willing to take these tests and wants to find out whats wrong. A lot of men would maybe in denial about the whole thing. I'm very lucky to be married to a man that is as serious about TTC as I am! xx

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digs Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Gloucestershire Posts: 574	My husband had the same results first time round, second time round all was fine. Keep your fingers crossed his little men were having a bad day too! Good Luck

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beauty Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: UK Posts: 1,792	Why is it that the tests are not always so good the first time round?? I note alot of ladies oh have had tests and they have come back not so good but then after trying again 3months ltr there fine.. any reasons why? My oh was lower than average but nothing to worry about doc said but we have been using wellman to get it abit better, even tho the doc expressed he prodcued more than enough of a sample and they only test a certain amount so really if they tested the whole lot he prob be well over the average! x

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Jul 1st, 2009, 07:44 AM	#17
Bingo Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 1,667	It annoys me that you're told to try 'naturally' for a year before being offered more tests because if you're ready to try to conceive then it usually means you're ready to become pregnant so it's frustrating to be told to wait. I hope everything works out for the two of you.

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Jul 1st, 2009, 08:08 AM	#18
ummar Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: London, England Posts: 1,893	Hope everything goes well for you all! Our GP told us both to go for routine tests and my OH has been resisting!

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Jul 1st, 2009, 08:13 AM	#19
chele Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Sheffield Posts: 10,853	I posted this in LTTC too but am really panicked now. My husband told me a few weeks ago he has a varicocele I don't think it's ever been confirmed by the doctor, but how do I go about getting him to go for an SA? He has tried for children before in the past with his ex wife (2 lots of 6months) and it never happened - could be easily explained, could just have been one of those things, but I now have it in my head that it's not just me who has the problems, but he might too. He needs to transfer to my dr anyway and I am seeing mine next week so will mention it to her. I am in the process of getting my bloods done for my own referral but don't think I can wait that long for his SA to be done Help!!! KayD- good that your husband is being very pro-active. A lot of men will hide from even going for a test believing everything is ok I hope you get some good results for the next SA! x

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