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Dec 16th, 2007, 18:35 PM
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Originally Posted by avistar  It is such a material instinct for women and I don't think men understand that sometimes....It is really hard sometimes when you have all this love you want to give and share. I know that if DH and I cannot have our own children, that we would love to adopt....how do you all feel about that??? Is thinking about that a part of the emotional draining part of ttc?? | Adoption is definetly an option we're look into as well. |
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Dec 17th, 2007, 13:52 PM
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Originally Posted by avistar It is such a material instinct for women and I don't think men understand that sometimes....It is really hard sometimes when you have all this love you want to give and share. I know that if DH and I cannot have our own children, that we would love to adopt....how do you all feel about that??? Is thinking about that a part of the emotional draining part of ttc?? | I'd not be able to, cause of my disabilities - I need care myself |
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Dec 19th, 2007, 00:21 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling:  | It has definitely drained me. I have had so many ups and downs since we started. This month I actually swore I was PG. I am on day 37 of my cycle which is never this long but still no pos HPT. My stomach was upset for a while and had cramps. I have signs that AF is coming but it never happens. I have been treating DH horribly because I feel so depressed. Why does something so joyous have to be so difficult. After 7 months I don't know how much more I can take of this. I really consumes you!!  | | | | Status: Offline
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Dec 19th, 2007, 00:28 AM
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Dec 19th, 2007, 00:28 AM
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Honestly i dont know how i manage to cope each month. |
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Dec 19th, 2007, 01:13 AM
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Originally Posted by Mynxie I'd not be able to, cause of my disabilities - I need care myself | I don't think a disability rules out adoption Mynxie! I'm sure of it. Its the family as a whole and the LOVE you can give a child. Will your disability stop you having your own - will your own lack love in your house etc etc .... Can't word this right  |
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Dec 19th, 2007, 04:21 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Yes indeed.
Over the past two years and more I go through phases, sometimes I just chart and not think about it too much....(except of course in that TTW)
Other times (like at the moment) it seems to be all I can think about. I get so down and out when AF arrives, and I bring those I love down with me, which makes me feel worse...
But no matter what phase I'm in, I will always have a little (or big) cry when AF arrives...it's just such a disappointment. |
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Dec 19th, 2007, 04:36 AM
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Dec 19th, 2007, 06:32 AM
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Dec 19th, 2007, 10:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Wobbles I don't think a disability rules out adoption Mynxie! I'm sure of it. Its the family as a whole and the LOVE you can give a child. Will your disability stop you having your own - will your own lack love in your house etc etc .... Can't word this right | exactly, i know exactly what you're saying and agree with you, but the bumf that we read on it, implied that I didn't have a cat in hells chance of adopting while I can't do everything for myself by myself....which is really sad tbh |
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