I agree that stress can cause your body to act funny which may make it harder for you to concieve just because my friend got pregnant the month she started high blood pressure medication and she had been trying for over 2 yrs! Then again I also agree with the whole fate philosophy. Eh... when people bring up kids around me I tell them "I am in no rush" when I really am thinking inside I WANT IT TO HAPPEN NOW!!!

When we first started TTC we were always so disappointed with the AF each month. After the 6 month period everyone use to say "it's ok, it hasn't been that long...it will happen, just relax and let it come naturally". Now it's been over two years those same people are coming up with comments each month like "Honey I'm so sorry you got your af" It's funny - it's not them going through it, so they just don't get how much you just fall apart each month....