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henlo5 · Jun 14th, 2009, 11:03 AM

We are in our 6th month of trying, i've given up excitedly symptom spotting and just try to chill!! Needless to say it doesn't work!! I feel like crying out 'what is wrong with me' sometimes!! Then I feel so stupid as it is still such early days and I think of all the people who have been trying for so long and feel guilty!! DH says it will happen when its meant too!! I feel like it never will at the minute!! Oh well just keep doing what we're all doing i guess!! Boo!!

Banshee · Jun 14th, 2009, 11:12 AM

I know what you mean about looking for symptoms. I am always looking for symptoms during 2WW but this time I am determined not to. Last cycle I was positive I would get BFP because of my 'symptoms' and was gutted when I wasn't. I am trying to chill this cycle and think 'it'll happen when it happens' - well that's the plan anyway... lol

Bubsi · Jun 14th, 2009, 15:05 PM

Omg! I so feel for you, my man has a low sex drive too! i thought i was the only one! he works awful shifts and is tired all the time it makes it really hard! along with other obsticles, all i hope for is the odd shag lol and seducing him when im according to my temping and ovulation calculators i am in my fertile stage although this is my first month doing all this. prior to this just been having sex as and when so fingers crosse di hit on somethin this month, good luck hun! it is reall hard with a partner with no sex drive like x

missy123 · Jun 14th, 2009, 16:15 PM

oh i wish i was only on cycle 2 with every cycle that passes it gets harder to deal with,im facing cycle 20 and i feel like giving up so just think theres always someone worse off than you

oconley · Jun 14th, 2009, 16:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Bubsi

Omg! I so feel for you, my man has a low sex drive too! i thought i was the only one! he works awful shifts and is tired all the time it makes it really hard! along with other obsticles, all i hope for is the odd shag lol and seducing him when im according to my temping and ovulation calculators i am in my fertile stage although this is my first month doing all this. prior to this just been having sex as and when so fingers crosse di hit on somethin this month, good luck hun! it is reall hard with a partner with no sex drive like x

Yeah, whats up with men not having a drive????? Is that normal?!?!?? I've always thought men always thought about it?!?!? Mine is always: too stressed, too tired, sore, has a headache, not feeling good, etc.... I swear, I could write a book. I thought these were the excuses women give??!?!

kyrabeth · Jun 14th, 2009, 17:25 PM

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Originally Posted by oconley

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Originally Posted by Bubsi

Omg! I so feel for you, my man has a low sex drive too! i thought i was the only one! he works awful shifts and is tired all the time it makes it really hard! along with other obsticles, all i hope for is the odd shag lol and seducing him when im according to my temping and ovulation calculators i am in my fertile stage although this is my first month doing all this. prior to this just been having sex as and when so fingers crosse di hit on somethin this month, good luck hun! it is reall hard with a partner with no sex drive like x

Yeah, whats up with men not having a drive????? Is that normal?!?!?? I've always thought men always thought about it?!?!? Mine is always: too stressed, too tired, sore, has a headache, not feeling good, etc.... I swear, I could write a book. I thought these were the excuses women give??!?!

My OH is the same and in all seriousness i just think he doesn't produce a large amount of testosterone. The plus now is because we are having more, he seems to want it more often, so perhaps its causing him to have more of a sex drive.

Bubsi · Jun 14th, 2009, 17:32 PM

Yeah, whats up with men not having a drive????? Is that normal?!?!?? I've always thought men always thought about it?!?!? Mine is always: too stressed, too tired, sore, has a headache, not feeling good, etc.... I swear, I could write a book. I thought these were the excuses women give??!?![/QUOTE]

It is a common misconception i am starting to learn that men want sex all the time! if only! im my house its the opposite felt like he didnt fancy me at first u know u go through normal insecurities so spoke to a few friends and many are in the same boat! Its totally a myth that men want and think about sex ALL the time!

Ud think theyd jump on board considering its for a reason! lol but turns out they have to be in the mood too! i mean? what the hell? but its true! so noone feel bad if your man isnt always up for it turns out its quite a popular thing.

TTCLILCU · Jun 14th, 2009, 20:57 PM

Oconley,

AF came for me on the 12th also. We have TTC since the January! I get so depressed each month and even more depressed the last couple of months as I have been on Clomid

I am starting my 3rd round tonight. I am hoping that the 3rd time is the charm!!! Maybe we can be buddies. (My cycles have been 30 and 31 days, however.)

Banshee · Jun 16th, 2009, 11:54 AM

TTC kinda takes the romance out of your sex life doesn't it?? lol

kermie219 · Jun 16th, 2009, 11:58 AM

cool we are all on the same cycle day about...ttc makes the time sooo slow. My dh does have a sex drive and we still can't seem to catch our

I tried temping then that got annoying and I just stopped ...that didn't work so now I am back to temping and just got a fresh supply of opk in the mail, here goes nothing hope we have a HUGE surge of

in July good luck ladies!

Jun 14th, 2009, 11:03 AM	#11
henlo5 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Lancashire Posts: 50	We are in our 6th month of trying, i've given up excitedly symptom spotting and just try to chill!! Needless to say it doesn't work!! I feel like crying out 'what is wrong with me' sometimes!! Then I feel so stupid as it is still such early days and I think of all the people who have been trying for so long and feel guilty!! DH says it will happen when its meant too!! I feel like it never will at the minute!! Oh well just keep doing what we're all doing i guess!! Boo!!

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Jun 14th, 2009, 11:12 AM	#12
Banshee Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Norfolk, England Posts: 251	I know what you mean about looking for symptoms. I am always looking for symptoms during 2WW but this time I am determined not to. Last cycle I was positive I would get BFP because of my 'symptoms' and was gutted when I wasn't. I am trying to chill this cycle and think 'it'll happen when it happens' - well that's the plan anyway... lol

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Jun 14th, 2009, 15:05 PM	#13
Bubsi Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 20	Omg! I so feel for you, my man has a low sex drive too! i thought i was the only one! he works awful shifts and is tired all the time it makes it really hard! along with other obsticles, all i hope for is the odd shag lol and seducing him when im according to my temping and ovulation calculators i am in my fertile stage although this is my first month doing all this. prior to this just been having sex as and when so fingers crosse di hit on somethin this month, good luck hun! it is reall hard with a partner with no sex drive like x

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Jun 14th, 2009, 16:15 PM	#14
missy123 Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 1,561	oh i wish i was only on cycle 2 with every cycle that passes it gets harder to deal with,im facing cycle 20 and i feel like giving up so just think theres always someone worse off than you

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Jun 14th, 2009, 17:32 PM	#17
Bubsi Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 20	Yeah, whats up with men not having a drive????? Is that normal?!?!?? I've always thought men always thought about it?!?!? Mine is always: too stressed, too tired, sore, has a headache, not feeling good, etc.... I swear, I could write a book. I thought these were the excuses women give??!?![/QUOTE] It is a common misconception i am starting to learn that men want sex all the time! if only! im my house its the opposite felt like he didnt fancy me at first u know u go through normal insecurities so spoke to a few friends and many are in the same boat! Its totally a myth that men want and think about sex ALL the time! Ud think theyd jump on board considering its for a reason! lol but turns out they have to be in the mood too! i mean? what the hell? but its true! so noone feel bad if your man isnt always up for it turns out its quite a popular thing.

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Jun 14th, 2009, 20:57 PM	#18
TTCLILCU Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: South Carolina, USA Posts: 165	Oconley, AF came for me on the 12th also. We have TTC since the January! I get so depressed each month and even more depressed the last couple of months as I have been on Clomid I am starting my 3rd round tonight. I am hoping that the 3rd time is the charm!!! Maybe we can be buddies. (My cycles have been 30 and 31 days, however.)

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Jun 16th, 2009, 11:54 AM	#19
Banshee Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Norfolk, England Posts: 251	TTC kinda takes the romance out of your sex life doesn't it?? lol

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Jun 16th, 2009, 11:58 AM	#20
kermie219 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: northwest UK Posts: 2,647	cool we are all on the same cycle day about...ttc makes the time sooo slow. My dh does have a sex drive and we still can't seem to catch our I tried temping then that got annoying and I just stopped ...that didn't work so now I am back to temping and just got a fresh supply of opk in the mail, here goes nothing hope we have a HUGE surge of in July good luck ladies!

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