Do you find TTC takes the Fun out of making Love?

MsLesley · Jun 11th, 2009, 15:57 PM

I Just wanted to hear what you ladies have to say about it. do you find TTC makes making love that much more sexier and exciting or do you find yourself saying..."meh, i guess we should get to it" lol

personally...i think its makes it that much more exciting and gives it the true meaning of "Making Love".

what do you ladies think?

jenny873 · Jun 11th, 2009, 15:59 PM

i think it feels special because u could be making ur LO at anytime lol, but i think when u cant b bothered and u just want to go to bed but u do 'it' to ttc then its not as much fun lol x

akgrown · Jun 11th, 2009, 16:14 PM

I have been having a great time with TTC

- I think the TTC thing is kind of romantic

urchin · Jun 11th, 2009, 16:15 PM

Thing is, I just love having sex with me boy - so TTC or not TTC it's all the same.....mostly I just can't wait to get his keks off lol

The chance that this might be the one that makes our LO adds an extra sparkle - but I really don't need much of an excuse

Mrs_N · Jun 11th, 2009, 16:20 PM

totally exciting, romantic and wonderful!

Fishwife · Jun 11th, 2009, 18:41 PM

At the moment, it's very exciting, exhilarating and incredible to think that it might be the start of a precious new life.

(But I do occasionally worry to myself that if we're still trying in more than 5 years time, it might've become a bit mechanical, too timing driven and lack any kind of spontaneity.

)

MsLesley · Jun 11th, 2009, 18:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Fishwife

(But I do occasionally worry to myself that if we're still trying in more than 5 years time, it might've become a bit mechanical, too timing driven and lack any kind of spontaneity.

)

That would be very understandable!

lori · Jun 11th, 2009, 18:45 PM

I admit that I miss the spontaneity sometimes, but I feel especially connected with my husband since we started TTC. It's so exciting to think that this could be the beginning of our family together.

Fishwife · Jun 11th, 2009, 18:47 PM

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Originally Posted by MsLesley

That would be very understandable!

I suppose I could start feeling like that much sooner, but at the moment it's lots of fun!!

Nibbler · Jun 11th, 2009, 18:52 PM

I am absolutely loving the intimacy but feel a bit restricted at the same time, coz we are trying to do it every other day while TTC... Also at mid-cycle, the way my eyes just lit up it makes my DH suddenly feels like a bag of fertiliser!

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MsLesley Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 2,273	Do you find TTC takes the Fun out of making Love? I Just wanted to hear what you ladies have to say about it. do you find TTC makes making love that much more sexier and exciting or do you find yourself saying..."meh, i guess we should get to it" lol personally...i think its makes it that much more exciting and gives it the true meaning of "Making Love". what do you ladies think?

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jenny873 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Walton, Liverpool Posts: 1,490	i think it feels special because u could be making ur LO at anytime lol, but i think when u cant b bothered and u just want to go to bed but u do 'it' to ttc then its not as much fun lol x

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akgrown Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: US Posts: 2,960	I have been having a great time with TTC - I think the TTC thing is kind of romantic

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urchin Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Midlands Posts: 2,051	Thing is, I just love having sex with me boy - so TTC or not TTC it's all the same.....mostly I just can't wait to get his keks off lol The chance that this might be the one that makes our LO adds an extra sparkle - but I really don't need much of an excuse

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Mrs_N Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Suffolk, UK Posts: 5,078	totally exciting, romantic and wonderful!

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Fishwife Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 145	At the moment, it's very exciting, exhilarating and incredible to think that it might be the start of a precious new life. (But I do occasionally worry to myself that if we're still trying in more than 5 years time, it might've become a bit mechanical, too timing driven and lack any kind of spontaneity. )

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lori Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 1,078	I admit that I miss the spontaneity sometimes, but I feel especially connected with my husband since we started TTC. It's so exciting to think that this could be the beginning of our family together.

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Nibbler Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Ireland Posts: 506	I am absolutely loving the intimacy but feel a bit restricted at the same time, coz we are trying to do it every other day while TTC... Also at mid-cycle, the way my eyes just lit up it makes my DH suddenly feels like a bag of fertiliser!

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