This is kinda going to be a long story, but I'll make it shorter. When me and my husband were married (1 year 2 months), we promised each other that we would not get on dating sites or anything that can harm our marriage. Well he made a mistake by looking at naked women on dating and single sites. When I caught him and confronted him, he kept apologizing, asking me not to leave...etc.. So I stayed and I forgave him, knowing that he won't do it again from the way he acted. Well it has been 3 months since that incident and yesterday was my birthday and on June 6, he made a screen name for mylol.net, it is a teen single dating site... he made this account on June 6 while I was sleeping! He PROMISED ME he would never do it again and I BELIEVED HIM AND TRUSTED HIM! Now I feel like I can't trust him! Am I being wrong for this? because I just feel like leaving because I can't trust my own husband! He even changed his e-mail passwords!!! He has got all of my e-mail address and passwords, because I don't like keeping secrets from him but apparently he does!!!!!!! What should I do??!! We were TTC but now I don't even want to because I feel if we have a baby, he'll be doing stuff way over than just looking at dating sites! Please help girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

oh my god!!!!!!!!!!!

i would be very very livid! i definitely think you need to think and sort things out!

i admire your strength!!! i definitely think waiting and figuring things out is the way to go! that is just horrible!!

i dumped my partner for the same thing

i think if hes happy, why look elsewhere. boredom is no excuse. if you cant trust him, there's no point

oh no im so sorry, have you asked him why he is doing this?
i think you should maybe hang fire on ttc til you and you OH get things sorted.
i dont know what else to say hun. i hope you can sort it.

I would leave him. You're young. Plenty of time to find someone worth being married to.

Aww im really sorry hun, i really hope you both can sort things out but if hes not willing to change his ways then i dont know hun xx

Honestly if there are problems than I don't think it's the right time to TTC. Having a baby put such an enormous strain on a relationship, and if a relationship is strained to begin with it's going to be that much worse. Hope the two of you can work things through

You are defiantly not wrong for feeling like you do! It is inexcusable! It's a given thing that when you even start in a relationship, let alone a marriage, you don't even think of going on a dating site! Why would you?

I'm so sorry your having to go through this, it's not a very nice position to be in, but at least you can be a little thankful (however much you wanted a child) that you didn't fall pregnant and you don't have the added complication and responsibility of a child in the scenario.

Best of luck with whatever decision you make.

omg sorry to hear that hun, ive been married a year this august and i cant believe that your dh would do something like that, you have taken vows and proved that you mean the world to each other, i definitely think ttc should go on hold, he obviously has some feelings and issues you need to discuss first, gd luck hun xxx

Hugs for you
You have done the right thing by stopping TTC. You need to be able to trust this man and if he cant prove to be trust worthy, then hes not worthy of your love, let alone your baby.
No wonder you feel like leaving, especially after you forgave him the first time he did it.
If you feel that hes totally broken your trust then maybe its time to call it a day. If you choose to stay with him, you must make it clear this man will need to work hard to rebuild the trust and if he's not prepared to do that then its over.