I left my ex for this type of behaviour
Although we weren't married for planning a family. . .

Men just won't change, they've got summat rong wiv 'em!
I get angry and upset when I hear about men doing this, I spose it's cos it happened to me but I just wona give them all a good talking to!


xx

I am sorry to hear this news. You deserve so much better hun. XXX

Rustywife.....
I have been through something similar, and even though it's painful and you want to leave (been there...trust me!!!), men CAN change! It's been 1 year since it has all come to an end and my life is at it's best right now....your hubby may have an addiction and if he does, go seek counseling...TRUST ME!!! Your marriage can and will be saved if you both want it to be saved! I am not sure how religious you are, but I am a devout Christian and God tells us that we are as one, to uphold our husbands (even through the storms of our marriages), don't give Satan a foothold to tear you two apart! I have been hurt many times and I knew God put us together for a reason and that reason is now shining through our marriage. You do need to confront him though....you do need to let him know that it is not acceptable. It is ok to separate for a short time while you two work this out, but always come back together...I mean by separate is, to live apart, but NOT do anything that will jeopardize the marriage. I would also tell him that you are to have all emails, passwords, websites, etc. Also, I know it's far fetched, but put a blocker on the computer, one against pornography or pornographic sites. He will not be able to view anything that reveals such things.....above all else....pray. Keep praying...it does work...God does help us through the storms of life.....He loves us. Keep working through this hun...you will come through this!!!

honey he needs a good talking too- there is no reason or excuse why he should be like this and you do deserve a better- either he cleans up or you walk...men are all sources of evil sometimes- poor honey!!!!

Hiya Hun, I admire how strong ur being if my OH did that i would be livid. I think ur right to stop ttc if u dont trust him. I hope whatever happens u end up happy.

I'd ditch him. He obviously doesn't respect you or he wouldn't do this. And he's signing up for a teen site? What, does he want to date little girls? Wrong'un. Get out now hun and be the one that has the last laugh - and best of all, keep your dignity. Fair enough you gave him a second chance but to abuse your trust again is just taking the piss.

In my opinion, I would leave him. You don't want to have a baby with someone like that, and have him be a father to your child. Being married means being 100% into your spouse and not even feeling the need to do douchebag (sorry!) stuff like that. Find someone else who will be 100% into YOU because that is so not cool of him!

I have a think about the teen stuff too. It is potentially not safe to have him round children. Maybe I am over reacting, but underage sex is a serious matter, not to mention illegal. I know you will get through this hun, but you have been the bigger person before in forgiving him, and he has thrown that back in your face. Chin up lovey, you dont want to bring a child into this. XXXX

How old is your husband hon? Cuz the teen site thing is ringing alarm bells for me too. If he is on a teen site there's a good chance he is presenting himself as a teenager (fine if he's 18 or 19 himself - not at all fine if he's 26!)

I would think very carefully about all of this, especially if you are thinking of giving it another go and having children with him.

The decision over whether to stay or go must be yours and yours alone - I hope you find the strength to do what's right for you x