put that way, temping seems to make a lot of sense. i'm stressing off the guessing game. i'll search the forum for posts on it. thanks!!

I started temp part way through my last cycle just so I knew when AF was going to come and visit...this cycle (first really temping) I've been driving myself nuts...so I think this time around I'm just going to record my temps every morning and then 3-4weeks into the cycle I'm going to start recording them...not seeing them on a graph seems to make it easier to not read into them...And it's true - you get a temp drop (fairly significant) when AF is coming (it will usually show up that day or the day after a temp drop). I know one of my friends has been doing this for about a year and it always happens to her (she has 1 already and isn't ttc again yet). I like it. Just have to trust what it's telling me...hoping next month I'm not checking for AF for a week before because I don't believe my chart! lol.

thanks dakini still reading up on it. i tried to sign up for fertility friend, but i couldn't decide on a username (gawd, i hate coming up with these things) and then when i did, it told me to try to register in a few days. BOO!