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Old Apr 4th, 2009, 20:34 PM   #1
T'elle
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Missing...where are you?


I'm feeling kind of lonely here and dont seem to recognise any faces in TTC anymore (sorry to all you new ladies in here dont mean to offend) but i was wondering if theres any of you other girls are still around or are you all lucky to have your 's it feels like im left behind...any of you girls from OCT- DEC 2008 still around, miss seeing all your lovely faces and threads xxx feel lost miss u xxx


 
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Old Apr 4th, 2009, 20:38 PM   #2
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Awww hun!

I know what you mean about feeling left behind! I could probably count on my hands how many TTC'ers are felt that I know now. Most of the of the others are in Lttc or preggers!


 
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Old Apr 4th, 2009, 20:39 PM   #3
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Aww Lots are still around. Some (like me) have been blessed with BFPs, others have moved over to LTTTC, others stick mostly to the journals. Some you will see pop into regular TTC now and again.

I know you have had a rough road lately, hon. I am sorry and hope you get your super sticky very very soon!



 
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Old Apr 4th, 2009, 20:42 PM   #4
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Thanks hun!! i just dont know where i belong anymore i really dont i want to TTC i really do but im so scared its not going to happen and if it does the bean just wont stick.... xxx


 
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Old Apr 4th, 2009, 20:48 PM   #5
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It is natural to be scared of those things in your situation! I know your last mc was very recent and I am so sorry. I hope you an come to terms with it and find the strength to try again. But I can understand being afraid of going through that horrid loss another time.

Remember that plenty of ladies get their sticky after multiple miscarriages, so you are still totally likely to get your sticky!! I just hope it is soon.


 
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Old Apr 5th, 2009, 03:44 AM   #6
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I know exactly what you mean hun, i was in this section probably at the begining of last year actually and none of the same people are here. It seems alot different here now, and i find not many reply to my messages etc :S I got my but miscarried twins at 16 weeks and so i'm back here now! xx


 
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Old Apr 5th, 2009, 03:53 AM   #7
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Hi t'elle :)


I remember you from before

I'm back to TTC too. xx


 
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Old Apr 5th, 2009, 04:06 AM   #8
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I know how you feel - I have been here since Oct 08 - TTC since Nov 08. I feel that I don't fit in anymore - I was doing the testers thread for the last three months but stopped and let someone else take over this month as it is killing me seeing all those 's (not that I don't want people to get there 's, I just feel like everyone is moving along and I am still here )

I am still here 6 months on (5 cycle's) and still nothing! I don't feel like a newbie anymore and I have not been here long enough to join in with LTTTC.




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Old Apr 5th, 2009, 11:47 AM   #9
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Thanks hun!! i just dont know where i belong anymore i really dont i want to TTC i really do but im so scared its not going to happen and if it does the bean just wont stick.... xxx
I am newer to b&b but wanted to reply to you. I think that a lot of us ladies feel scared and lonely. This ttc is a scary deal especially when we have miscarriages. It was hard for me even last month seeing those get their BFP when I did not. Don't get me wrong - I am a nice person who has all the best wishes in the world for everyone and their journey with ttc. But I can't help it - i got sad. Before finding this site I was only knowing my own journey and dissapointed each month with BFN or early miscarriages. I don't see a dr. about ttc until May although my first miscarriage was 2 years ago in May - so I have been trying on and off for a while now! I just wanted you to know you aren't alone & although some of us are new faces - we will try to be filling the shoes of your old ttc buddies.
Good luck - and try to smile - hopefully our turn will be next.


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Old Apr 5th, 2009, 11:51 AM   #10
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Hi T'elle, I remember when you first joined . I am still here too unfortunately. In fact there are still quite a few of us in the Ttc journals. There are also lots of new peeps recently I notice.

Here's hoping we don't have to wait much longer eh

Good luck


 
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