Mynxie

Thank you ladies, for being here 4 this twisty moo

Wobbles

I think I can understand yer

Not that I'm asking for the details here but a silent no answer needed suggestion .. if sex drive is good at home then go natural ways like you say bin the OPKs etc and have regular sex every 2-3 days

I know its really shit having a loss & to experience those feelings more than once is something I was never able to explain & I don't say the following in badness this is what my OH said to me and I wanted to smack him if I'm honest but we got through with a scarey start and a positive ending ... anyway he told me to relax up have reg sex do it naturally now and know that I can conceive and one day it will be .... an it was.

I sometimes feel funny posting in this secton or to some posts but I know the heartache so I hope you see that I answer with my heart & care and not just coz I conceived quick and its easy for me to say. I'm still so hurt inside from our loses.

Mynxie

I know you hurt huni, - that hurt never goes away. I know you're genuine and I really do appriciate your input and everything you've done for me here on B&B. Please don't feel funny in TTC threads huni, - you've been here and you had a hard time too from what I've read.



My sex drive is really high (I really do whinge if I don't get it every day or every other day...I'm like a 17 year old boy!! lol), it's just that when I'm flared up it hurts too much, cause obviously our bodies move against each other and the bed (or wherever lol) move and all those things hurt. I think that it's cause my sex drive is so high that we concieved the 2ce we did, - only had 7 AFs in 2 1/2 years.

Hubby wanted me to get OPKs. TBH I don't mind, - but I don't see the point either cause just coz I'm OVing wouldn't mean anything would change, you know? But I'll keep him happy.

TBH sex is wonderful for pain control...well orgasm anyway, but when I'm this bad it's getting to orgasm several times within a short space of time to reduce pain for more than a few seconds (the brain can only deal with one extreeme message at any one time, so it either focuses on pain or orgasm) - i know it sounds confusing and contradicting. It's not so bad if I'm not flared up though. Sorry that I don't seem to make much sense.

Thinking of buying some herbal remedy from the net, like ovulex or whatever it's called...

_Aaliyah_

Hi i have irregular periods too i can go between 3 and 7 months without getting one. i dont know your situation very well but have you tried agnus castus i have been using it for a while and it seems to work quite well. good luck

Mynxie

no I haven't tried it, - can you buy it from holland and barrets?

thanks huni x

_Aaliyah_

yes you can thats where i buy mine! you can get it in liquid form which you add a few drops to water or capsules i think the recommended dose is 800 to 1000mg a day but dont quote me on that! lol i get the 400mg capsules and take 2 each morning coz from what i've heard the liquid one tastes yucky!! Good luck and let me know how u get on x x x oh and if you ever wanna chat about it you can always PM me x x x

Jayne

Aww, babe. I don't know what to say. Other than I think you're amazing, I can't imagine what it must be like for you. You know where I am if you need to vent hun.

Iwantone!!!

aawwwwhunni my cycles vary from 34-50 days

Mynxie

Thanks ladies x

VanWest

I dont want this to come off mean or anything because I cant tell from your pic because you look normal size. Are you overweight at all? I only ask because I had major trouble with my pierods, the same thing as you about 2 pierods every 6 months only when I took hormones. My doctor explained to me that when your overweight sometimes your body stops dropping eyes because of all the fat (??) around the ovary. Anyhow long story short. I got fed up with my weight problem and had the lap band, I lost about 50lbs, and around the 30lb weight loss my pierods came back and I am now 15 weeks pregnant.