maybebaby

Well, my boyfriend and I are suddenly having issues. Well he is. 24 hours ago we were happy, and he suddenly says today that he is depressed but didn't know why as we'd been so happy. A long talk later, I have no idea what is going on. Part of me just wants to be done with him, and part of me is willing to give him some time to sort out his issues. To top it all off, still no AF. Just my luck I'll probably now get my BFP and we'll break up.

suzan

Am so sorry dear!
Try to communicate with him! ask him what's wrong, what if you did something that hurted him! If u feel that there might be a BFP now then u should work hard on making it work out. Reach him, talk to him.. maybe he has another problem that u still dont know?

You love him? If so, call him, and work things out.

Good luck

strawberry199

for u...
You should spend time to sit down with him and solve the issues together...
Hope both of u doing fine...

"There is only one happiness in life,
to love and be loved."

bambikate

Hi maybebaby, I'm so sorry to hear that, I think Suzan gave you great advice. Communication is definately the key. Best of luck and I hope everything works out for you. Thinking of you hun x x Kate

bek74

Sinead

Hope you get everything sorted out. Keep talking to him like everyone has said and hopefully that will help.

Sinead

maybebaby

Thanks everyone. The weird thing is that we have communicated a lot, and he says that it has nothing to do with me, he's just not sure he can ever fully commit again (he's divorced). He asked for some time to think, and all I can do is give it to him. Part of me knows I deserve someone that can fully commit, and that part of me is saying to just end it...

Mango

Hey there Maybebaby. I think it would be best to give him time to think but at the same time let him know that it is not fair to you for him to be so indecisive about the relationship and what he wants because you need more assurity and a bigger commitment from him.

Maybe you guys can discuss what it is he is scared of. It sounds like he may be afraid you will leave him perhaps?

You need more support than that, especially if you get a BFP. But yeah, give him time and then talk again. Hopefully he is just having a bad week hun!

maybebaby

I really appreciate all of your support. Right now I am just leaving things be, and will talk to him whenever he contacts me. If I don't hear from him by the end of the week, well, I think I am just going to end it. He knows that it is not fair to me to be so indecisive, and I am tired of having my feelings hurt.

Lauz_1601

how long have you been together ? do you not see much of eachother ? for you to say ,if you dont hear from him by the end of the week you will end it, it seems you dont see much of eachother anyway ? Maybe you need more quality time together .

I think suzan gave good advice, also dont let him take you for a ride, you need to know where you stand hunny xxx