Timw to chill out

kellyo · Mar 15th, 2009, 06:03 AM

I have been going insane for the last 3 months - Checking temp, doing ovulation tests, and early detection tests with no luck. All I have thought about is getting a

to the point where nothing else matters. When we decided to start trying I never thought I would get this stressed - i don't even recognise my own behaviour sometimes. All my friends/family have said "just chill out, it's never going to happen whilst your like this".

So I'm going to take their advice this month - no temp charting, no ov tests and def no early tests - sick of looking at

, just lots of

Let's hope it works

BabyBrave · Mar 15th, 2009, 06:11 AM

I know just how you feel so all I can say is:

kellyo · Mar 15th, 2009, 06:19 AM

Thank you

to you too. I hope you get your

soon x

cazhd · Mar 15th, 2009, 06:21 AM

Hey know exactly how you feel i've tried last couple of months to stop temping cos turning me even more obsessed and an even more constant reminder from the minute i wake up. Just been doing plenty of

x x

kellyo · Mar 15th, 2009, 06:27 AM

Well let's hope it works for both of us!! I think the hardest part will be not to take an early test but I'm determined

Daisydo · Mar 15th, 2009, 06:53 AM

just wanted to give you a hug

Sbuxgirl4004 · Mar 15th, 2009, 08:41 AM

I have no patience when it comes to TTC. I'm trying to stay occupy with life but when I get bored or have down time, the thought of a baby just pops into my mind.

RobenR · Mar 15th, 2009, 08:44 AM

I'm with you! I've obsessed so much since our m/c that my husband doesn't even want to BD and therefore we've not been doing anything for at least a week. I'm also sick of obsessing over it and am chilling out as well. Here's hoping we get a nice, laid back BFP!

kellyo · Mar 15th, 2009, 08:53 AM

Sorry for your loss

I know, it becomes a chore rather than fun! My husband and I have been snappy with each other to so we both decided it's time to chill.

bke · Mar 15th, 2009, 10:18 AM

Wow I know what you mean! I sometimes get so sick of myself and my obsession.

Good luck in your carefree month!

Mar 15th, 2009, 06:03 AM	#1
kellyo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 200	Timw to chill out I have been going insane for the last 3 months - Checking temp, doing ovulation tests, and early detection tests with no luck. All I have thought about is getting a to the point where nothing else matters. When we decided to start trying I never thought I would get this stressed - i don't even recognise my own behaviour sometimes. All my friends/family have said "just chill out, it's never going to happen whilst your like this". So I'm going to take their advice this month - no temp charting, no ov tests and def no early tests - sick of looking at, just lots of Let's hope it works

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BabyBrave Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 279	I know just how you feel so all I can say is:

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kellyo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 200	Thank you to you too. I hope you get your soon x

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cazhd Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 466	Hey know exactly how you feel i've tried last couple of months to stop temping cos turning me even more obsessed and an even more constant reminder from the minute i wake up. Just been doing plenty of x x

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kellyo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 200	Well let's hope it works for both of us!! I think the hardest part will be not to take an early test but I'm determined

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Daisydo Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: UK Posts: 618	just wanted to give you a hug

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Sbuxgirl4004 Trying to conceive (TTC) Inactive Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Ohio Posts: 79	I have no patience when it comes to TTC. I'm trying to stay occupy with life but when I get bored or have down time, the thought of a baby just pops into my mind.

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Mar 15th, 2009, 08:44 AM	#8
RobenR Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 587	I'm with you! I've obsessed so much since our m/c that my husband doesn't even want to BD and therefore we've not been doing anything for at least a week. I'm also sick of obsessing over it and am chilling out as well. Here's hoping we get a nice, laid back BFP!

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kellyo Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 200	Sorry for your loss I know, it becomes a chore rather than fun! My husband and I have been snappy with each other to so we both decided it's time to chill.

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bke Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 241	Wow I know what you mean! I sometimes get so sick of myself and my obsession. Good luck in your carefree month!

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