Ladies, y'all have been great. I have learned so many things (maybe too much LOL) from being here. But, I think I am going to take a break for a while. Last month we did follice tracking via ultrasound and did the Hcg trigger shot. Even after all that the evil made her arrival. Today I spoke with the nurse at my Dr's office today (he's been out of the office until today) because came and I wanted to see where we go from here. She said that he (the Dr) said we could do the follicle tracking again and the shot, but that he (the DR) thinks we are trying too hard and need to just relax and it will happen. What the *&^%!!!!!! I was so not ever expecting to hear that from the Dr. So, she said...can I schedule your US appt?, and I said...no..believe I'll pass. I CAN NOT BELIEVE HE FREAKIN' SAID THAT!!!
So, I guess I am going to not do tests and stay off the baby sites (aka here) so maybe I can stop obsessing so much. I really want a child, and if learning to "not try so hard" helps, I am going to try to not try??? Best of luck to all. May still peak in a time or two month to check on everyone.

i believe there is some truth in that, i fell preg with my first child when i was on the pill (not trying at all), missed one pill and hey presto. now we are actually trying, off bc, counting days etc. its just not happening for us. i def agree you can become obsessed and maybe 'not trying' will work. good luck and i hope it works for you. x

I think that there is truth to that, and I too am trying to wean myself off here a bit. I'm already off all the other baby sites I used to be on and only check this one a few times a day now as opposed to living on the site. There is life outside this computer!

Good luck to you and hope you get a bfp.