I feel so upset!

mummy2 · Mar 6th, 2009, 15:21 PM

Trying to conceive is so stressful and upsetting!

Another one of my friends has just told me she is pregnant (it wasnt a planned pregnancy) and im so upset... obviously im happy for her but i just feel so low at the moment!

I feel horrible that i feel that when i should be jumping for joy for her... does anyone else ever feel this way?

Sorry for my rant... it just feels better to let stuff out sometimes and i feel silly telling my OH.

**booflebump** · Mar 6th, 2009, 15:29 PM

Yup - Ive had that feeling quite recently. Friend who had an abortion 4 years ago (after getting pregnant on purpose by not using any contraception) recently announced her pregnancy and it upset me so much I was in floods of tears in front of the OH. Dont think he quite got the issue poor thing - but I went with her for the abortion, saw the feotus that she passed and it affected me quite a lot. So yup, what you are feeling is quite normal!! xxx

Daisydo · Mar 6th, 2009, 15:34 PM

your first sentence said it all sweetheart ....""Trying to conceive is so stressful and upsetting!""" yes it is...and then that news is bound to set you off..im sure many of us have been in the exact feeling...hang in there hun your

will come

wishn2Bmom · Mar 6th, 2009, 15:46 PM

I've absolutely been there!!!! I keep finding out about someone's pregnancy on average 1 a month... arg. Plus at work recently I was the only female of child bearing years that wasn't preggo!!!! I've been one bitter lady lately

I've also had to take a friend to have an abortion done (for medical reasons) recently. It was really hard on me as well. I understand ya ladies~ none of us are alone, and I feel quite privileged to be in such great company.

mummy2 · Mar 6th, 2009, 15:52 PM

Thank you all for such lovely replies! its nice to know im not alone and others feel this too! Thank you!

Mar 6th, 2009, 15:21 PM	#1
mummy2 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol, UK Posts: 75	I feel so upset! Trying to conceive is so stressful and upsetting! Another one of my friends has just told me she is pregnant (it wasnt a planned pregnancy) and im so upset... obviously im happy for her but i just feel so low at the moment! I feel horrible that i feel that when i should be jumping for joy for her... does anyone else ever feel this way? Sorry for my rant... it just feels better to let stuff out sometimes and i feel silly telling my OH.

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Mar 6th, 2009, 15:29 PM	#2
booflebump Other BabyandBump Team Join Date: Feb 2009 Posts: 19,615	Yup - Ive had that feeling quite recently. Friend who had an abortion 4 years ago (after getting pregnant on purpose by not using any contraception) recently announced her pregnancy and it upset me so much I was in floods of tears in front of the OH. Dont think he quite got the issue poor thing - but I went with her for the abortion, saw the feotus that she passed and it affected me quite a lot. So yup, what you are feeling is quite normal!! xxx

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Mar 6th, 2009, 15:34 PM	#3
Daisydo Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: UK Posts: 618	your first sentence said it all sweetheart ....""Trying to conceive is so stressful and upsetting!""" yes it is...and then that news is bound to set you off..im sure many of us have been in the exact feeling...hang in there hun your will come

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Mar 6th, 2009, 15:46 PM	#4
wishn2Bmom Trying to conceive (TTC) BnB Elite Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Lexington, Ky Posts: 10,990	I've absolutely been there!!!! I keep finding out about someone's pregnancy on average 1 a month... arg. Plus at work recently I was the only female of child bearing years that wasn't preggo!!!! I've been one bitter lady lately I've also had to take a friend to have an abortion done (for medical reasons) recently. It was really hard on me as well. I understand ya ladies~ none of us are alone, and I feel quite privileged to be in such great company.

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Mar 6th, 2009, 15:52 PM	#5
mummy2 Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Bristol, UK Posts: 75	Thank you all for such lovely replies! its nice to know im not alone and others feel this too! Thank you!

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